I lost almost 40 lbs since I divorced my ex-wife. I look and feel really fit right now. I try to look nice for my GF, but she told me my looks really don't matter to her. She likes me as a whole, and loves everything about me. I asked, what if I were 300 lbs....would you still have sex with me?
She answered, "ya, I'll just lift up your belly fat to give you head." hahahahahahah... I know if you love someone, you will love them no matter how they change. But they should be responsible and diligent enough to try to look attractive for you. The effort is extremely sexy.
If my woman turned 300 lbs due to medical condition, but she tries hard to lose the weight, I would be sooooo sexually turned on by her efforts.