And that is more bloody whining.
I'm sorry that you think you have to take on the flaws of others to turn it into a flaw of your own (men are pigs therefore I am ashamed of being one). Relish being atypical, enjoy the fact that you are able to be your own person. Personally, typical women annoy the crap out of me and as such I have very few female friends. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy being female. I choose to take the fact that typical women seem bitchy and shallow as a good thing, means I am not one of the crowd.
Seriously, you need a shift of perspective.
'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.