Did I smother her or was too easy?

[blackiesharley]

Why wouldn't you listen to the message...?

Would give you time to think of how to respond, instead of hearing it, and immediately calling her and saying something irrational like "Hey Susie! It's me.. just got your message.. I like the joke you made.. man I love you!"

Tone hit it on the head.

All is good. I'm just afraid that something that looks too good to be true may be... I'm terrified of this woman. She's doing everything perfect.

I guess it boils down to maybe someone wants me as much as I want them? I dunno know. It HAS happened before.

Must relax
Must relax
Must relax
Must relax

[Lloyd95]

Dude, quit playin games; you're not very good at it. don't you guys have cell phones anyway?

[TAVS]

I hope you lose this woman; you're a big wanker.

[Converse]

I was gonna mention stop playing games, what's the point?!

TAVS- Say it 3 times why donch'a!

[Tone]

LoL Terry I see you're having the same problems with the new LF I am.

[Gigabitch]

Tone hit it on the head.

All is good. I'm just afraid that something that looks too good to be true may be... I'm terrified of this woman. She's doing everything perfect.

I guess it boils down to maybe someone wants me as much as I want them? I dunno know. It HAS happened before.

Must relax
Must relax
Must relax
Must relax

I think carpflounder might have some advice for you on how to relax.

[pinkpuca84]

i dont think he's weird tho...i myself would back off if something is too god to be true. cos i'm scared of getting hurt. it's like u just wanna stop the time and let the beautiful feelings and situation just the way it is. if you roll with the time and let your feeling loose...who knows might happen? the worst case is that the girl may dissapoint you...or things will not work out...such and such.
so yeah..i understand abit why he tried to avoid her at the first place.

[blackiesharley]

i dont think he's weird tho...i myself would back off if something is too god to be true. cos i'm scared of getting hurt. it's like u just wanna stop the time and let the beautiful feelings and situation just the way it is. if you roll with the time and let your feeling loose...who knows might happen? the worst case is that the girl may dissapoint you...or things will not work out...such and such.
so yeah..i understand abit why he tried to avoid her at the first place.

Thanks for the support Pink. Let's remember though that I only avoided her for a few hours!

Night before last after a two-hour conversation, she ended it with 'sweet dreams, I'm sending 'love energy' to you. It was beautiful.

Then Thursday, something I needed to talk to her about and left a message. No returned call, radio silence. Weird. Did SHE get scared and run? We may never know.

I'm SO sick of this s**t and drama with every one I meet, I feel like just giving up and resigning myself to be celibate and alone the rest of my life.

[pinkpuca84]

well...she does sound abit too much rite now...dunno if i'm right, but i can see why u see this whole thing is "too good to be true". especially when she said "im sending love energy" thing. it happens abit too fast, but hey...chin up...maybe it's just a miracle. dont close your heart, ok? but dont let your guard loose either. take things slowly, and take it from there. wish u all the very best

[blackiesharley]

well...she does sound abit too much rite now...dunno if i'm right, but i can see why u see this whole thing is "too good to be true". especially when she said "im sending love energy" thing. it happens abit too fast, but hey...chin up...maybe it's just a miracle. dont close your heart, ok? but dont let your guard loose either. take things slowly, and take it from there. wish u all the very best

I think she ran for whatever reason. It's not like her not to return calls.

I came on too strong and was too available? I smothered her a bit? (This is my guess but she loved the attention, her words)

She became frightened of her feelings and went into a shell?

Maybe her phone died? Maybe one of her kids is sick?

Damned if I know. I guess the next 24 hours will tell the story. If she calls, great. If she doesn't, well as a practical matter there's nothing I can do about it. Another phone call on my part would be smothering.

Just give her space for now.

[King Zarathu]

Geez dude... wtf why does this shit have to be dramatic? you mentioned that everything has to be dramatic...why?

-_-` you're just setting yourself up for finding every ****ed up woman and never finding that one person...cuz when it's too perfect everybody is going to say "oh, god! this is so good! i'm going to kill myself."

-.- <---modern society at LF is evolving into this face.

[Tone]

blackie, I'm sure she will call.

Relax a bit.

And yes, slow down a bit too...

[clynn]

Yes, you do go straight to love and romance don't you? It is sweet - but hard to live up to also, I fear.

[blackiesharley]

She called and left a message. (I was out) very apoligetic, sweet and basically went through her entire schedule. Sounds like a busy girl. (Single Mother of two).

Wants to chat tonight but I've already made plans. Tommorrow...

[King Zarathu]

ohhhhhhhh that totally explains it lol.

damn dude, you're gonna hit up a milf?