whats too soon? whats good timing? it's sound very complicated to me. i would consider a month long enough to wait to know if the guy is good enough to sleep with but i don't think there should be any rules as such, the more time spent together then the more one knows the guy better, i never really thought about this in regard to pharma guy, i wonder did he feel insecure then? we had about 4-5 dates at the stage we slept together, is that too soon?