Oh My God, I don't understand women?

**ecojeanne** · 11-09-09, 12:29 AM

^^well some women are just desperate for anyone sometimes. while men are constantly desperate, that's the difference i guess.

**Wallace Stevens** · 11-09-09, 12:43 AM

Originally Posted by ecojeanne

like indi said it's the weeding out the quality from usual same crap out there. i can get sex anywhere from anyone, but why would i want to. it's shit boring with someone who doesn't have an interesting brain. too many men out there are so alike it bores me to death. so i wait to see if they qualify as interesting. once that line is crossed there is no going back, the door is open, i want to be sure it's open with someone i like. end of.

What qualifies as interesting?

**ecojeanne** · 11-09-09, 12:49 AM

^^whatever i deem interesting, it's called being an individual with specific individual tastes and delights

**Wallace Stevens** · 11-09-09, 12:53 AM

Interesting lack of interesting criteria.

**ecojeanne** · 11-09-09, 12:55 AM

^^lol it's all individual darling and that's why some men find women enigmatic

**Wallace Stevens** · 11-09-09, 01:04 AM

Yes, I'm one of those men. Perhaps I'm too reason-minded to fully understand the whims of women.

**doppelgaenger** · 11-09-09, 02:41 AM

NeoSeminole says: speaking for yourself?

I'm referring to you.

**NeoSeminole** · 11-09-09, 02:52 AM

ecojeanne says:

"like indi said it's the weeding out the quality from usual same crap out there. i can get sex anywhere from anyone, but why would i want to. it's shit boring with someone who doesn't have an interesting brain. too many men out there are so alike it bores me to death. so i wait to see if they qualify as interesting. once that line is crossed there is no going back, the door is open, i want to be sure it's open with someone i like. end of."

sure, whatever makes you feel better about yourself. I love how women try to justify not putting out by acting like they are on moral high-ground. Anyway, let's say you meet a quality guy. Why should he choose you if he can have his pick of women? Why would he waste his time walking around the outside of the same car over and over before he gets to test drive when he can find a similar car and test drive it after 1-2 passes around the exterior?

**NeoSeminole** · 11-09-09, 02:57 AM

doppelgaenger says:

"I'm referring to you."

haha, you're nowhere close to my league. So what does that say about you?

**IndiReloaded** · 11-09-09, 03:40 PM

Originally Posted by NeoSeminole

Why would he waste his time walking around the outside of the same car over and over before he gets to test drive when he can find a similar car and test drive it after 1-2 passes around the exterior?

The problem with your analogy is you seem to think that its the guy doing the buying. This is not always the case. My BFs always got alarmingly attached.

Isn't it kinder to politely break off with a guy before the emotional entanglements of sex? In addition to my experience, I saw several of my friends run into problems b/c the guy got too attached once things got physical. Its not just females this happens to.

If sex is the only goal, say someone like you or Gribble, then its simplest to just let him pursue someone like-minded.

CB - it wasn't so much a morals thing for me, as being goal-driven. I have no problem with those who enjoy casual sex, I've said this before. But it wasn't for me. One of the best things parents can do for their kids is help them know their own minds, and mine did a great job in this regard. I just wasn't wasting my time with immature, horny guys who wouldn't appreciate a good partner.

**Wallace Stevens** · 11-09-09, 03:43 PM

I agree with IndiReloaded. In my experience, men often become attached after sex much like, and perhaps even more often than, women. Sex changes your body chemistry in unpredictable ways. Tread carefully.

I also agree with her other point. Know thyself. It's cheesy and too often said, but you must know your limitations and inclinations. There is no one standard. Everyone differs in their libido levels, comfort with strangers, and sexual proclivities.

**IndiReloaded** · 11-09-09, 03:46 PM

Originally Posted by NeoSeminole

haha, you're nowhere close to my league. So what does that say about you?

Are you describing physical appearance? No offense, neo, but I find Dopple more handsome than you. Facial features, that is.

As for your physique, not all women enjoy men built like tanks. Personally, I like men who are well-proportioned but not overly muscular.

**doppelgaenger** · 12-09-09, 03:44 AM

Originally Posted by NeoSeminole

doppelgaenger says:

"I'm referring to you."

haha, you're nowhere close to my league. So what does that say about you?

And what league would that be, meathead?

**doppelgaenger** · 12-09-09, 04:08 AM

Originally Posted by IndiReloaded

Are you describing physical appearance? No offense, neo, but I find Dopple more handsome than you. Facial features, that is.

As for your physique, not all women enjoy men built like tanks. Personally, I like men who are well-proportioned but not overly muscular.

Ma woman is also much prettier and more intelligent than the girls he dates, *cackle*

I have bikini photos of her from our Turkey trip, and I am not sharing them with anyone! *stares at them and drools*

**Harte** · 12-09-09, 04:10 AM

I would think that 3rd date should be special, take her to a show at theater, you should buy of course. Then share that big tub of popcorn. Pop a whole in the bottom of tub and insert your glory

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