My girlfriend is married and her husband was just diagnosed with terminal cancer.

[Illusional]

if i were you i'd push her aside. it's probably easier said than done, but i'm done with being in a relationship where the girl either is still with or can't get over her past. if she's not going to devote herself entirely to you, then f*ck it.

i'm sorry, but your cancer story doesn't bother me one bit. everyday people die so why should things change now?

raverboy

[CocoChanel]

Oooh ok. I skipped over some stuff. I re-read that post and...

I would suggest moving on. That's too much bullshit going on.

[Illusional]

^^^ skipping over the important stuff is half of the fun.

raverboy

[CocoChanel]

Hhahaha trueee.
But I agree with your post Illu.

Papote... you need find you some new new.

[Illusional]

now you and me are just rambling to make more money... wow, this is different, you get paid to talk about bs huh?

raverboy

[CocoChanel]

ROFL!!! Yep and you know this!!!

[Papote]

It's funny because I all I ever asked from her was some devotion and time to be together, but she said I was being selfish.

I was the one that decided to end it and I am the one the feels the worst. Apparently, all she is worried about is her dying husband, the divorce and her financial troubles. It kills me that I am the one suffering over loosing her.

Maybe it's because this was my first relationship. And I gave my all. I'm practically 30 and all I ever wanted was a good stable long term relationship.

[Mish]

We had a huge fight because I started getting jealous,

Right now after we broke up she told me that she is starting to work part time with him making invoices and stuff.

I don't understand why you are having fights with her and are getting jealous when the two of you have broken up.

It's over. Let her go.

[Papote]

I don't understand why you are having fights with her and are getting jealous when the two of you have broken up.

It's over. Let her go.

That fight was before we broke up.

I just don't understand how fast she has moved on and easily she has let go and I feel like I am in the gutter.
This was her second relationship.

[CocoChanel]

Papote... it only seems like she moved on fast to you. But the truth is she's always had a fall back plan. Shes always had something to go back to thats why she didn't bother telling her "husband" she moved on because she didn't really move on. She held ontp her past. Don't be foolish like her. Find something and someone else to get in to and do the same.

[artimtb]

I won't stay closed to woman like that.
Like others said, just leave her alone, and let her go.
I don't see she has commitment and it looks like she just looking for fun with you.

[MVPlaya]

Look, you have to understand that you don't have a main part to play in this theater, you're more like a side character and its time for you to exit the stage. Right now in between dealing with a terminally ill husband, building a relationship with children who she now has to care for, and understanding where her life is going, she has enough on her plate without balancing your relationship on top of it all.

Its a shitty, complicated situation and these things happen when you date married people. Your part in this story is over.

[Illusional]

Maybe it's because this was my first relationship. And I gave my all. I'm practically 30 and all I ever wanted was a good stable long term relationship.

there are a lot of other single women in this world that you can devote yourself to. why did it have to be a married one?

raverboy