I don't think if some random hottie came hitting on my man, or even my friends (who are men) would they cheat. I think that cheating happens when something has been absent for a prolonged time. It can be sex, affection, appriaction, or attention. When you're not getting that at home and someone elsewhere provides it that's where one could get into trouble. And I'm not talking about just a month or so of no sex, or attention- a much longer period of time has to have elapsed.
I'd like to hope my husband wouldn't but that doesn't stop me from making sure he's not thrown into the path of temptation. I pretty much know where he is almost all of the time (at least I think I do) and vice versa. Out of town trip? I'm going along. Poker night? Just so happens two of the people he plays with are old friends of mine. We have very clear rules about things like giving rides home to coworkers, etc.
Why tempt fate?
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GB, sounds like you've got a handle on your man's activities there :-) You're not making sure the checkout time on his Home Depot receipt is in line with what time he got home are you? ...........I'm just sayin' :-D
LMAO! Primo! Come on! I don't think she is over the top. I think that is acceptable in a marriage.
When I was with my fiancee he never went anywhere if I couldn't be invited to come along. Whether or not I accepted the invitation is a different story. But he was always where he said he would be. Most of the time I never had to ask where he was. When he got angry he would be stubborn and not tell me but once he calmed down he would tell me where he was and it was always proven true. However... it did annoy me when he asked me where I had been. LOL! But he was always good about making sure I knew where he was at all times.
Ha, stay married long enough and you are looking forward to the times they head off on business.
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Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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my boyfriend in high school was one of those people who thought it was necessary to know where i was all the time and thought he should let me know where he was and all that nonsense. after that i swore that any relationship thereafter would not be so controlling. if my bf decides to cheat than that is his problem, and if i decide to then that is mine. living with that kind of control is so much worse than the possibility of being cheated on imo. also my high school boyfriend is ironically the only guy that's cheated on me. that i know of.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
wow...I dont worry so much about what any guy im with is up to or where he is- they have their own life and i dont get to decide where they go or who their with.
But like you say..if they cheat thats their problem.
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