Attracting guys

[Coco]

Qwerty if I lived over there, I'd come round and fix your sink for sure

Rawrrrr. That sounds so freaky. LMAO!

[qwertz]

lol, charlie, i'd definately let you!..ive see your pics! lol

[Indignant]

well, it makes no sense to me then. you are attractive and i can't imagine any guy turning you down if you let them know that you are open for it. what's the real problem?

[qwertz]

i dunno, thats what im wondering!

[Coco]

You walked into a gay bar. That's it. That's all I can think of. LOL! Because you are hot and you have a great personality. I'm stumped.

[Perryville]

Well Qwert, you've attracted me, and I'm 10,000 miles away. Surely somebody closer, would notice how hot you are>

[chico247]

If you're just looking for someone to have fun and share with as well as "meet your needs" (wink-wink), then it shouldn't be difficult as you are a mamber of the fairer sex. Instead of waiting for those guys you meet to make the first move, you make the move. Why do so few women realize that they have all the power when it comes to relationships? If you ask for what you want, you WILL get it. Any halfway attractive woman can approach nearly any man and get a number, name, date, etc. JUST SAY IT!

[vashti]

Are you going out to bars by yourself? That might seem a little..... forward.

[qwertz]

lol no!!! im not on my own lol, always with friends..i never go out just looking for guys lol

[Sanctuary]

If you're just looking for someone to have fun and share with as well as "meet your needs" (wink-wink), then it shouldn't be difficult as you are a mamber of the fairer sex. Instead of waiting for those guys you meet to make the first move, you make the move. Why do so few women realize that they have all the power when it comes to relationships? If you ask for what you want, you WILL get it. Any halfway attractive woman can approach nearly any man and get a number, name, date, etc. JUST SAY IT!

I disagree with that. I think it's better if you just have an approachable demeanor and you invite guys over by making eye contact/giving them a smile and then letting him make the move.

The problem with being too straightforward is that it's too easy for the guy and he might lose interest. Also, if you're way too assertive you can end up looking bossy.

Are your friends hotter than you? That might hinder things.

You have a cute personality qwert, I can't really figure out how you lose a guy after he starts talking to you.

Are you trying too hard? lol

[jessZ]

I find I attract a lot of men when I'm just out having fun and not thinking too much about it... I say just focus on having fun with your friends, go out dancing or whatever.. Just make sure you have loads of fun with whatever you are doing and guys will come to you. Confident, smiling girls get the most attention in my experience. I mean, it helps if you're hot as well (and you definately are that qwert!!) but confidence and a sense of fun is key in my experience.

[MVPlaya]

"They're just intimidated" is absolute nonsense. A guy might be too intimidated to come up to you, thats common, but if you come up to a guy, the odds that he's still too intimidated to make the right move is pretty close to zero, unless you are hitting on a complete social retard, in which case its your gain.

More likely is that they either don't feel any attraction between the two of you, aren't interested, or are more interested in someone else.

So: when you go up to guys, what do you talk about? What exactly is the tone of the conversation / subject matter?

[shheadz]

I find I attract a lot of men when I'm just out having fun and not thinking too much about it... I say just focus on having fun with your friends, go out dancing or whatever.. Just make sure you have loads of fun with whatever you are doing and guys will come to you. Confident, smiling girls get the most attention in my experience. I mean, it helps if you're hot as well (and you definately are that qwert!!) but confidence and a sense of fun is key in my experience.

I agree with this. I've attracted the most women when I specifically wasn't going out to get laid. I just wanted to have fun with some friends. There's a stink of desperation on you otherwise. That kind of desperation only attracts creeps if you're a woman. A guy with more self respect won't be attracted to you.

[Illusional]

lol no!!! im not on my own lol, always with friends..i never go out just looking for guys lol

liar.... hahaha... are you kidding me?


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[qwertz]

I dunno, my friends are hot but i dunno, theres pics of me in the gallery.

I dont go out looking for guys, when im out im out to have fun and socialize with friends, im definately not desperate and dont think i come across that way.

If i get chatting, its light hearted, flirtatious chat, nothing that comes off as desperate or easy(as im not either of those lol).

I dont just walk up to a guy..i mean, if were both at the bar or whatever and he gives me what i see to be interested signals, then im not afraid to chat, or sometimes they start the conversation, but never 'seal the deal' so to speak, by asking for my number or a date.