Originally Posted by
trouble_sleepin
Aww, you're not pathetic. You just have feelings for this girl. Unfortunately, this girl doesn't seem to return those feelings and it's okay to be hurt. Just try and remember, there's better out there. You'll meet a lot of people in your lifetime and you're bound to find someone who is actually worth everything you'd be willing to invest in them.
Also, never let someone tell you that you're going to lose everything. You're not going to lose anything, here. You didn't actually go out with this girl. At least you know she's involved and where she stands. In a way, it's a better road. You can see she's just not the girl for you and it can put things in a new perspective and allow you to move on.
But take things slow. It takes time to heal after someone does somthing like this to you. Good luck with everything, if you ever feel like you needa talk, you can message me. =) I hope everything goes well. Also for now, it might be easier if you tried to keep your distance from her.