Originally Posted by
Archie
Well, in girl68`s situation she did the right thing to leave him.
I remember when i was 12 or so, as soon as school ended, i got home or went to a friends and we started playing games until late evening. The older i got, the more there was to do(homework, cleaning, cooking, work), so that meant less time for games, so i stopped this nonsense about gaming until 4am(which i gladly did at the time), when i had to wake up at 6am, ah good times. I learned to control the habit. But why was i able to do so and not girl68`s ex? It depends on the persons childhood and how he/she was raised. There is no cure for addiction, there is only willpower and he lacks it.
As for rules, i`m not too fond of anyone telling me what to do and what not to do, on reflex and out of spite i`ll do it anyway.
Thank you everyone for your replies, this has turned into a very fruitful discussion and flame thread, which is most enjoyable. I haven`t resolved my issue with my girl yet, but i`ll keep you posted.
Also, it`s not like i`m gaming while she`s around and/or doing nothing, sitting on the couch staring at me with doggy eyes asking me to stop playing and take her on a date, whilst i`m ignoring her because my base is under attack - rubbish. When she`s not around i game alot, if i`ve nothing better to do, when she`s busy with something and again if there`s nothing better for me better to do, sure why not. I spend alot of time with her, still i can`t figure her out. Maybe she just likes to fight me.. she is kind of aggressive. I`ll find out, you just wait.