Naked pictures from magazines saved on phone?

[sadie_genie]

Tell him to respect you and stop telling you about this stuff.

[Togoru]

I tried to tell him that, that it was a matter of respect and how I told him I didn't want to know and don't and how he told me anyway. He even saw how I was upset about it earlier and yet he wasn't very reassuring about it then too.Yet he got offended and "pissed" at me for saying how I felt about it all.

[sadie_genie]

He was probably pissed because he thinks you are judging him for looking at porn. Make it clear to him that you don't care to know and leave it at that. Don't make it into a criticism of his character.

[Togoru]

I'd never judge him for looking at porn, and never have, I know it's normal, it just makes me feel uncomfortable when he tells me. Although I didn't mean to, but he probably felt judged when I said to him how "it's not something you'd say to your girlfriend. I told you how it made me feel and you told me anyway, it didn't make the situation any better", but that's because at the time I was upset because he wasn't listening to what I was saying all along about it. In the morning when we talk again I hope to clear it all up.

[Togoru]

Today we talked a little about it before he had to leave this morning. We agreed to talk face to face later about it because texting wasn't helping at all (which it never does for serious conversations but we tried). He still doesn't see my side of it or how him being that honest about it made me feel kinda bad. I totally understand how most guys look at that stuff but I repeatedly told him before I didn't want to know about it because of how it makes me feel. He also changed why he was pissed at me last night, this morning he said he was pissed because "after a month this still bothers you" so my feelings apparently piss him off? I feel like he's being a bit insensitive about it all and how I feel.