Question about sex for the ladies

[Wakeup]

Carry on then. Who are we to suggest you do anything other then what you're currently doing. Since you seem to know your wife so well, I'm surprised you've not been able to seduce her into wanting you to hammer her more often? Sadly for you, it's quite the quandary.

[PaulieWalnuts]

Didn't see all too much advice, mostly just a lot of personal attacks.

[dontaskme]

Didn't see all too much advice, mostly just a lot of personal attacks.

No personal attack here... The problem is your inability to accept that there is an issue with your sex life, otherwise, you won't be here posting at all. Now I can see why your wife doesn't want to be bothered having sex with you.

Oh well, you better take advantage of the three times a month because that is all you are going to get

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And if you know your wife so well, why are you asking for opinions here?

[PaulieWalnuts]

No personal attack here... The problem is your inability to accept that there is an issue with your sex life, otherwise, you won't be here posting at all. Now I can see why your wife doesn't want to be bothered having sex with you.

Oh well, you better take advantage of the three times a month because that is all you are going to get

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And if you know your wife so well, why are you asking for opinions here?

I can see now that posting here was a waste of time. None of you think like my wife, and I should have figured that out before coming here. She's not like most women. That's why I love her.


There were plenty of personal attacks, and many came from you. Be proud of yourself.

[dontaskme]

I can see now that posting here was a waste of time. None of you think like my wife, and I should have figured that out before coming here. She's not like most women. That's why I love her.


There were plenty of personal attacks, and many came from you. Be proud of yourself.

Hahaha, unfortunately for you dude, your wife doesn't desire you as you do her that's why you ain't getting enough of her poontang, thus, the frustration and despair is painted all over your posts.

Yeah, I'm always of myself

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And btw, when I said deprived of sex, I wasn't referring to your wife, I was referring to you (your wife withholding sex to you). Again.... DEFENSIVE!

[Wakeup]

Didn't see all too much advice, mostly just a lot of personal attacks.

Are you, like... 12? I'm sorry to be sarcastic but you are coming across as a very closed minded man/boy that wouldn't dare do anything other then what he is already doing to seduce his wife into wanting sex with him more often.

Since she won't get her hormone levels checked or see a sex counsellor because she's so "traditional" then maybe you ought to go to a forum frequented by women in her culture and ask them how you can get her motor going more often. Maybe they're is some Chinese herbal medicine or something that she would be willing to take?

Maybe they'll even have some remedy for your issue of delayed ejaculation. If you got off easy, she might just get into getting you off more often? Not a slam, Paulie... just another suggestion.

[PaulieWalnuts]

Hahaha, unfortunately for you dude, your wife doesn't desire you as you do her that's why you ain't getting enough of her poontang, thus, the frustration and despair is painted all over your posts.

Yeah, I'm always of myself

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And btw, when I said deprived of sex, I wasn't referring to your wife, I was referring to you (your wife withholding sex to you). Again.... DEFENSIVE!

Big surprise...Dontaskme is talking more shit. You're nothing but a lot of noise.
And I knew you were referring to me. I won't even try to figure out what goes on in that head of yours.
You selected your username well.

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Are you, like... 12? I'm sorry to be sarcastic but you are coming across as a very closed minded man/boy that wouldn't dare do anything other then what he is already doing to seduce his wife into wanting sex with him more often.

Since she won't get her hormone levels checked or see a sex counsellor because she's so "traditional" then maybe you ought to go to a forum frequented by women in her culture and ask them how you can get her motor going more often. Maybe they're is some Chinese herbal medicine or something that she would be willing to take?

Maybe they'll even have some remedy for your issue of delayed ejaculation. If you got off easy, she might just get into getting you off more often? Not a slam, Paulie... just another suggestion.

The only suggestion you've made is that I make her cum once and quit. Aside from the fact that would mean I would just be teasing myself, since I can't cum in less than a minute like her, you seem to have missed the fact that I have given her a standing offer to simply give her oral with no strings attached, which she always turns down, saying she wants the "full treatment" when shes ready to do it, the only thing you've suggested is to ask her to try supplements, and I can't even get her to take medication when she's sick.

[dontaskme]

Big surprise...Dontaskme is talking more shit. You're nothing but a lot of noise.
And I knew you were referring to me. I won't even try to figure out what goes on in that head of yours.
You selected your username well.

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The only suggestion you've made is that I make her cum once and quit. Aside from the fact that would mean I would just be teasing myself, since I can't cum in less than a minute like her, you seem to have missed the fact that I have given her a standing offer to simply give her oral with no strings attached, which she always turns down, saying she wants the "full treatment" when shes ready to do it, the only thing you've suggested is to ask her to try supplements, and I can't even get her to take medication when she's sick.

Wa, wa, wa... more whining from "littlenuts". Go back to your response from my post again where you said I just described your wife.

Why don't you just admit that you're not man enough to satisfy little wifey of yours Sorry dude, but if you can't man up to really admit that there is an issue somewhere, you're just gonna have to settle with whatever little vagina you get from your little wifey. You can't solve an issue unless you first admit there is a problem. Personally, I think your wife is just turned off by you!

You're right, you can't get into my head even if you tried because if you're not smart enough to figure out women, you're not smart enough to figure me :p

Ohhh.... I'm sorry, do you even remember how a beaver looks like???!

And that's all she wrote!

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Really???? Wtf are you doing bitching about your sex life here then???

[PaulieWalnuts]

You need to work on your reading comprehension skills. I said that in response to what you said here:

...I am getting the exact dose of sex that I need, not under dosed and certainly not overdosed, lol.

No personal attack here...

Oh no... not at all...

You're right, you can't get into my head even if you tried because if you're not smart enough to figure out women, you're not smart enough to figure me :p

Yes... maybe some day I can become smart enough to think that ad hominem attacks and name calling pass for adult conversation.

[basilandthyme]

Guys this is getting really nasty. Time to walk away.

[dontaskme]

You need to work on your reading comprehension skills. I said that in response to what you said here:





Oh no... not at all...




Yes... maybe some day I can become smart enough to think that ad hominem attacks and name calling pass for adult conversation.

Or maybe you need to work on yours so you can respond better to women. It's like you unable to read your wife, therefore, the rejection, lol.

[Wakeup]

The only suggestion you've made is that I make her cum once and quit. Aside from the fact that would mean I would just be teasing myself, since I can't cum in less than a minute like her, you seem to have missed the fact that I have given her a standing offer to simply give her oral with no strings attached, which she always turns down, saying she wants the "full treatment" when shes ready to do it, the only thing you've suggested is to ask her to try supplements, and I can't even get her to take medication when she's sick.

Here are some other words to tell you what I've been trying to tell you: How about you leave her wanting more.

Does she just lie there like a starfish while yelling this "hammer me, baby" or does she at least try to get you half way over the hill so that you don't have to screw her tired? You say the best thing about taking her to bed is pleasuring her so why would you only giving her one nice orgasm "tease you" if you only forgo the marathon every once in a while or... at the very least just try it?

I have given her a standing offer to simply give her oral with no strings attached, which she always turns down,

How unromantic and totally unseductive. Yes.. I read that but in your tunnel visioned responses, I had forgotten to respond to THAT bit of libido killing rhetoric.

Sorry to tell you but I don't care what culture a chick is... she's very unlikely to take you up on that unless she's currently going through a BPD hyper-sexual episode. That may work in the honeymoon stage though or once in a blue moon but she probably would just as soon take care of herself if she just wanted an orgasm.

Do you know if she masturbates or is that something she doesn't bother with as well?

When she wants it over with, she tells me so. She doesn't use the dishonest tactics you're implying you use. When she wants it to continue, she says things like "Hammer me, baby." Very tricky, huh?

Yes, well it's a good trick to give a guy that has delayed ejaculation issues a chance to pop... at least until she has to tell you to stop. I can't remember; have you told us if she gives you oral?

[dontaskme]

Yes... maybe some day I can become smart enough to think that ad hominem attacks and name calling pass for adult conversation.

And what ad hominem attack are you talking about? At least three women posted something here that was difficult for you to hear and went on to say that we are judgmental, projecting our own issues, blah, blah, blah. And let's not forget you called me rude and mean spirited

Dude, you have a problem, you only hear what you want to hear and aren't receptive to anything at all and I won't be surprise if that's the reason why your wife is rejecting you.

As a woman, I can tell you that if your wife enjoyed sex as much as you think, there is no reason why she wouldn't fukc her honey more often.

Did you grow up in a culture where the man is always right?

[PaulieWalnuts]

Here are some other words to tell you what I've been trying to tell you: How about you leave her wanting more.

Does she just lie there like a starfish while yelling this "hammer me, baby" or does she at least try to get you half way over the hill so that you don't have to screw her tired?

No, she doesn't just lie there... she's very vocal and loud- but I end up doing all the work. I had to practically coerce her into trying being on top, and she always says she's exhausted after she cums once, and she wants me to take over again. (She says she can't fathom how women in porn can do that so long) She does grab onto me and sort of pull herself into me while I'm at it.

You say the best thing about taking her to bed is pleasuring her so why would you only giving her one nice orgasm "tease you" if you only forgo the marathon every once in a while or... at the very least just try it?

I talked to her about if after reading your questions. Here's what I got out of her: YES, sometimes, when I take pretty long to cum, she is sore for 2-3 days. She does enjoy the ride, but not the after effect. She claims that is NOT why she says no. (Actually, believe it or not, somehow in her head, according to her- she doesn't say no all that often.) I asked her if she could pick, if she would rather cum ONCE, FIVE times, or TEN. She said that "ten is a bit much," (Soreness afterward) one is not enough, and she would prefer 5-7 times. I then asked her if she would prefer I just call it a night if we're approaching 10 and I'm still not getting there- she said "no."
She has told me its getting to be too much on a few occasions.
BTW: On a few occasions I find myself popping pretty fast... so she gets her ideal 5-7. No, I have no idea what causes it to happen that way.

How unromantic and totally unseductive. Yes.. I read that but in your tunnel visioned responses, I had forgotten to respond to THAT bit of libido killing rhetoric.

Sorry to tell you but I don't care what culture a chick is... she's very unlikely to take you up on that unless she's currently going through a BPD hyper-sexual episode. That may work in the honeymoon stage though or once in a blue moon but she probably would just as soon take care of herself if she just wanted an orgasm.

Come on, Wakeup- do you really think I just say, "Okay, lay on the bed, I'm going to lick you?" I still work her up with foreplay. She loves me fingering her G-spot with the "come hither" movement. On the rare occasions she's said yes, I've thrown that in, too. BTW: A female coworker said she'd "never pass that one up."

Do you know if she masturbates or is that something she doesn't bother with as well?

She has. Whenever I ask if she's supplementing our lovemaking herself, she denies it. She does like me to phone her and talk her through it if I'm out of town sometimes. She likes me to tell her what to do.

Yes, well it's a good trick to give a guy that has delayed ejaculation issues a chance to pop... at least until she has to tell you to stop. I can't remember; have you told us if she gives you oral?

She does not give oral.

And there's no point in responding any further to dontaskme's shit-talking and insults.

[basilandthyme]

I've been following quietly and wish to jump back in. It was the bit about her not giving you oral which made me think.

When you do persuade her into having sex, aside from the oral, does she enjoy giving you pleasure? Does she get enjoyment from seeing how much she can arouse you? Does she tell you to lie back while she does wonderful things to you? In short, does she enjoy sex enough to give as well as receive?

I'm wanting to rule out the idea that there's a disconnect between receiving of physical pleasure and the whole act of 'love making'. (I hate that term BTW, I just couldn't think of a better description for what I'm trying to get across).