So many people don't practice the idea of "look before you leap."
Is he faithful?
He was before getting married or having kids, everything else doesn't apply.
Is an unfaithful man a good candidate for fatherhood?
No.
Should I have children with him?
No.
Should I have three children with him?
No.
Should I hit him because the choices I made in life frustrate me to the point of immaturity?
No.
See how easy that is? You look, you judge the distance, and if it's too far... you don't leap.
This "woman" isn't a real woman... she's just a kid with a bunch of babies. When she starts to woman-up... then she will have learned what it means to be a woman. One of the main lessons of womanhood is making tough choices for the best possible outcome... like toughing it out as a single mom for a while to remove kids from a damaging cycle.