She wants to talk

[Cain]

All of my friends at school except two are females. Not girlfriend but friends that are girls. Believe me, I know alot about how they think (one scary place).

You don't know anything about how a woman thinks.

Women don't even know how women think.

So you, someone not even out of high school, definitely doesn't have the experience to make a claim that grown women can't claim.

[I'm not telling]

And you can? Obviously you are very messed up inside.

[XPRabbit]

The friend zone IS impossible to get out of. If a woman is friends with a guy and they eventually get into a relationship, the guy was never in the friend zone. All the friend zone is is a place a woman puts a guy when she has said he won't be anything more than a friend.

You don't know anything about how a woman thinks.

Women don't even know how women think.

So you, someone not even out of high school, definitely doesn't have the experience to make a claim that grown women can't claim.

... there is something wrong here.

[XPRabbit]

works out, time to go.. i hope you get the answers your looking for ^.^

[starbuck]

I'm a female...and I agree with the men. You is about to get let down easy.

[I'm not telling]

starbuck I realise that. I'm saying that I can currently come up with about 17 completely different scenarios about this. The point is I know that I'm going to be "let down easy". The difference is that I also know people's opinions change over time (though I know girls tend to be very rooted).

[Cain]

And you can? Obviously you are very messed up inside.

I never said I could.

[Cain]

... there is something wrong here.

So what? Women say that all the time.

Women and men are friends on different levels.

Men are friends with women because given the chance, they'd **** them.

Women are friends with men because they just want to be friends, though there are some friends that women have where they'd **** them.

This is from the mouth of many women. But they will also repeat what I've said... the friend zone is impossible to get out of. Any man that was a friend before a lover wasn't in that zone yet.

[Cain]

starbuck I realise that. I'm saying that I can currently come up with about 17 completely different scenarios about this. The point is I know that I'm going to be "let down easy". The difference is that I also know people's opinions change over time (though I know girls tend to be very rooted).

I only see one scenario.

It involves her telling you that she likes you as a friend and wants to keep the friendship and that she hopes you aren't hurt by this. She might also tell you that maybe someday things can be different. She's not saying that because she truly means it. She's saying it because she's trying to give you hope so you feel better about the situation.

[starbuck]

starbuck I realise that. I'm saying that I can currently come up with about 17 completely different scenarios about this. The point is I know that I'm going to be "let down easy". The difference is that I also know people's opinions change over time (though I know girls tend to be very rooted).

You can go on thinking that there is a chance in the future. But right now, she's going to let you down easy while drinking a smoothie. What are you going to do in the meantime, wait for her? That doesn't sound like any fun.

[I'm not telling]

I have decided that your opinion really doesn't matter Cain. Anyway I also know that the best thing I can do any any situation is to wait and see, then react depending on what happens.

[I'm not telling]

You can go on thinking that there is a chance in the future. But right now, she's going to let you down easy while drinking a smoothie. What are you going to do in the meantime, wait for her? That doesn't sound like any fun.

No, in the meantime I'm gonna drink a smoothie while eating a king ceaser wrap. And like I just said, I intend to react to the situation as it happens. Besides I know she likes shotgunning and flying and so do I. Once I get my private pilots license this year I can finally have a flying buddy and shooting partner at the gun club (My dad is too busy for both and my mom hates flying and doesn't do shotguns).

[Cain]

I have decided that your opinion really doesn't matter Cain. Anyway I also know that the best thing I can do any any situation is to wait and see, then react depending on what happens.

Feel free.

Disregard my opinion because it's not what you want to hear.

Doesn't change the fact that I'm right.

[starbuck]

No, in the meantime I'm gonna drink a smoothie while eating a king ceaser wrap. And like I just said, I intend to react to the situation as it happens. Besides I know she likes shotgunning and flying and so do I. Once I get my private pilots license this year I can finally have a flying buddy and shooting partner at the gun club (My dad is too busy for both and my mom hates flying and doesn't do shotguns).

INT, if you can geniunely be friends with her in the future without feeling bad about it, then more power to you. But if you are settling with being her best bud while you secretly wish for something more romantic with her, it's not really that fair to you. It puts the ball in her court while you wait around passively for her to decide to make the friendship into something more.

That is time you could spend meeting other girls. Girls that might want to date you now, not sometime in the future.

Either way, let us know how it goes.

[I'm not telling]

No, its just because your as stubborn as I am.

Anyway as the great hippies say I will "go with the flow"...though they also said that the world leaders are aliens in disguise and bubble gum had spider eggs in it... go figure.