what is going on?! no feelings with sex?

[IndiReloaded]

I think you already know the answer to your question, BJ.

My take on your posts is that he started to say 'things' b/c he knows if he doesn't come up with *something* its hello Mr. Hand. He doesn't have the actual balls to lie and say he loves you, so he's flailing with this.

Enjoy while it lasts & don't make it more than it is.

[Lite]

Ah, so because he has issues being emotionally available he's an asshole? Are you really wanting to tread the path of throwing stones here?

But, hey, you involved yourself with someone you know who cheats, and who didn't take time to fix whatever it is in his head that is leading to his infidelity/emotional detachment. Sounds more like you have a flawed way of picking mates, mate.