I can't explain the rape part... it just felt like it... *sigh* And no, I don't want to press charges, just leave it already.
I got apartment back, he kind of left it. His parents live nearby, and he stays there, from what I've heard. I don't know what I'm going to do right now. He left a message on the table, along with the key, and said he was sorry. Not certain what to make of that, but it seems he isn't coming back. At least it feels good knowing he wasn't completely guiltless about this... He did care, even if it seemed to take a while before that got to him.
And about the orgasm, I'd rather heard explanations for it, than "it felt good, it wasn't rape". It felt uncomfortable, and I wanted him to stop it, but couldn't make myself. Those paradoxal emotions doesn't match up. I guess I'll figure it out when I meet up with the rape-thingy I've talked to. They might have an explanation on it. Even with some of you trying to explain it, it just doesn't sound right. Why would you feel good, when you don't? I thought sexual things were directly related to your mentality? Otherwise, how can you be gay/straight/anything? Wouldn't you just be everything, per definition? I don't understand it at all X_x
EDIT: Didn't notice the new reply
Well, talking to him is pretty much the last thing I feel like right now but I already said I didn't want to lose the guy as a friend (If that is what you were attempting to get at). But really, right now, I can't see us becoming friends again. We can try starting over, but I doubt things will go back to the way they were... You go off by explaining it was rape, but not a kind of rape that can be considered illegal, only to tell me to give him a chance... I actually thought about it at first, but right now, it doesn't exactly seem like the most sensible thing to do. Why would I want to give a guy who raped me, a new chance? Of course, he is my best friend, or was, but...
Perhaps, I'll try texting him a message. Truth to be told, I have had feelings for him. I always pushed them aside because he were my friend, and I liked it like that. But right now, those feelings seem quite distant... And I'm slightly afraid he will do nothing but take advantage of me. I can't exactly say if I want a friends-with-benefits relationship or more. I can't tell if this whole "feeling good" emotion was caused by some strange reaction you have by default in such situations, or if it was because he just was good. I am not inexperienced with sex by a long shot, but he was the best guy I can remember ever having had sex with. I can't remember if it started feeling good before the act, sadly.