This thought has definitely occurred to me, though to be fair to myself, I never asked for anything, not from him or anyone else. I do not want to be seen as needy (even when I feel it), and I definitely don't want my daughter to be seen as a burden, so I never whine out loud. Too prideful, I guess. Thanks for your perspective.
No, silly. YOU. lol
Misombra - I <3 you. We should plan another get-together.
Indi - I likewise do not see you as a failure AT ALL. You tried to make something whole with a bunch of broken pieces, and you stuck it out for longer than most people would have done. You have nothing to feel bad about.