Physical VS Mental attraction

[Junket]

Seriously, I can't stand that skinny skinny crap... I saw Hilary Duff on the MTV award thingy (was lame btw) last night and wow she looks HIDEOUS now that she looks like a walking skeleton.. I have on clue how these people can look at themselves and think that it's attractive...

Because they're ****in' idiots.

People claim anorexia and bulemia is a "disease".

Bullshit.

They're just stupid.

[Rob26]

But 5'2" and 155 pounds is a bit more than a bit more than average!!

I work with a woman with a nice figure and she told me she's 5'4 3/4" and weighs 116. She's not thin at all.

[Tone]

I agree Fras.. how they can look themselves in the mirror and honestly think they are attractive is beyond me.

Rob, yeah she might be more than average but it's still not THAT bad... like I said just plan some more healthy activities.. like hiking, biking, go for walks everynight, etc etc.

Think of it this way. If there was somethin wrong with the girl it would be either 2 things right:

1 - Good body. Bad personality. Not fixable. You can't change who someone is.
2 - Bad body. Good personality. Fixable. I wouldn't throw away a good thing (from what you describe) cause of 20/30 pounds overweight...

Like I said just plan some more healthy activities.. if you're lucky she'll really like it and get hooked on getting into shape. Again, if you slept with her and made out already it can't be that bad...

[Kiechi]

I agree Fras.. how they can look themselves in the mirror and honestly think they are attractive is beyond me.

Rob, yeah she might be more than average but it's still not THAT bad... like I said just plan some more healthy activities.. like hiking, biking, go for walks everynight, etc etc.

Think of it this way. If there was somethin wrong with the girl it would be either 2 things right:

1 - Good body. Bad personality. Not fixable. You can't change who someone is.
2 - Bad body. Good personality. Fixable. I wouldn't throw away a good thing (from what you describe) cause of 20/30 pounds overweight...

Like I said just plan some more healthy activities.. if you're lucky she'll really like it and get hooked on getting into shape. Again, if you slept with her and made out already it can't be that bad...

Totally agree with you.

[misombra]

we haven't heard from reverb. i think he's probably over it now.

[Tone]

Oh LoL... I thought it was Rob who was the guy who posted this... my bad.

[bluesummer]

But 5'2" and 155 pounds is a bit more than a bit more than average!!

I work with a woman with a nice figure and she told me she's 5'4 3/4" and weighs 116. She's not thin at all.

What they tell you and what they actually weigh are two different things.

Besides, actual weight according to height doesn't tell you anything. You forget that these 5'4" 100 lb chicks have no fat OR muscle on their body. A person at 5'2" could be maybe just a bit 'chubby' but still carry a lot of muscle weight.

So who knows? She might not be that bad at all.

[Tone]

Let's see a pic of her.

Blur out her face if you have to, we just wanna see her body.

[shh!]

I work with a woman with a nice figure and she told me she's 5'4 3/4" and weighs 116. She's not thin at all.

There are two things you can be sure will always be lied about: men lie about their height, and women lie about their weight.

[Rob26]

So you're saying she weighs even LESS than 116? Then that makes the 155 even worse!!

[Asip4u]

So you're saying she weighs even LESS than 116? Then that makes the 155 even worse!!

This woman at my work weighs 145 and she's 5'3...she looks almost perfect...a lot of guys like that in a woman...nobody is talking about obesity here...you're obviously too picky.

[shh!]

So you're saying she weighs even LESS than 116? Then that makes the 155 even worse!!

If she is nearly 5'5" and claims she weighs 116, she is either skinny as a rail or lying through her teeth.

[misombra]

lol. yup.

[Ellynn]

If she is nearly 5'5" and claims she weighs 116, she is either skinny as a rail or lying through her teeth.

And if he says shes not thin....and shes 116....then what the heck exactly is thin? Do guys honestly like anorexic looking girls?

[Airborne]

If you are into a person mentally then often their looks can grow on you, I know that has happened to me in the past, may be if you wait awhile you will begin to love her physically because you love her mentally.