Do a lot of guys go to Strip clubs?

**misombra** · 13-06-05, 02:09 AM

no. but i'm not a teenager trying to pretend like i do.

and thanks for quoting me. maybe she'll actually see that now since she is supposedly ignoring me.

**boobaa** · 13-06-05, 02:17 AM

Well, since you don't know what the truth is, you cant tell if shes is telling the truth or not.

Let it go with that...

**misombra** · 13-06-05, 02:20 AM

oh we're talking about truth? i thought we were talking about these things... "security or relationships, or life, or people".

i think you might be as confused as she is.

**boobaa** · 13-06-05, 02:55 AM

Originally Posted by misombra

oh we're talking about truth? i thought we were talking about these things... "security or relationships, or life, or people".

i think you might be as confused as she is.

Just replace the word "truth" with these things you mentioned and you will understand

**misombra** · 13-06-05, 02:56 AM

mmmmmhmmm. whatever you say.

**bluesummer** · 13-06-05, 10:58 AM

Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86

It just amazes me there are women out there who are as brainwashed by men as you. You call me names all you want but its not going to change what I believe lol. And you know what? Even if everyone on this site teamed up on me it wouldnt make a difference because even then I wouldnt stump under pressure. I'm not going to call any of you names because I dont feel a need to because I am secure.
I just find it hard to believe there are women out there who believe that a man who goes to a strip club is being faithful. If he is taking his time from being with you, and his money that he could spend on you, and his eyes away from you and he is spending it with women he doesnt even know you tell me how good your relationship is! You might have in your head "hey this guy really loves me" but maybe YOU need to reevaluate your priorities.
Sometimes people stay in a relationship because they feel like they cant do any better. They feel stuck, they might even have children together and are staying for the kids, but I'm not about to believe that you genuinely think this man loves you. I pray and hope that you have more sense in you than that. I really do.
I'm not going to ban you unless you really give me a reason to. If you cant speak to me like an adult and express that you have an opinion without calling me names then of course I would ban you because there is no reason for me to read that.
I hope that you can look inside yourself and ask yourself if youre truly happy with the man you love looking at other women. You need to ask yourself what is missing in the relationship that he feels the need to fill with nude ladies. Just because a man may tell you he loves you, actions speak louder than words, and to me from what I know his actions dont seem to show it.

Please re-read your own thread 'We Had A Long Talk' and then try and justify how you could possibly know anything about, or preach to me about, what a proper, trustful, loving relationship is.

I will talk to you like an adult when

A) You ARE one in the first place
B) You display some adult rationale
C) You stop proving us right with such childish behaviour as threatening to 'ban' everyone that offends you.

On that note, I would be honored to join the ranks of those banned by you. They are among the few people here whose opinions I have any general respect for, and agreeance with. That is all.

**shh!** · 13-06-05, 11:17 AM

Originally Posted by bluesummer

Please re-read your own thread 'We Had A Long Talk' and then try and justify how you could possibly know anything about, or preach to me about, what a proper, trustful, loving relationship is.

I will talk to you like an adult when

A) You ARE one in the first place
B) You display some adult rationale
C) You stop proving us right with such childish behaviour as threatening to 'ban' everyone that offends you.

On that note, I would be honored to join the ranks of those banned by you. They are among the few people here whose opinions I have any general respect for, and agreeance with. That is all.

aaaahahaha! Looks like they're jumping ship, Misombra! Welcome aboard, bluesummer!

**misombra** · 13-06-05, 11:26 AM

Originally Posted by bluesummer

Please re-read your own thread 'We Had A Long Talk' and then try and justify how you could possibly know anything about, or preach to me about, what a proper, trustful, loving relationship is.

I will talk to you like an adult when

A) You ARE one in the first place
B) You display some adult rationale
C) You stop proving us right with such childish behaviour as threatening to 'ban' everyone that offends you.

On that note, I would be honored to join the ranks of those banned by you. They are among the few people here whose opinions I have any general respect for, and agreeance with. That is all.

you go girl. you tell it!

**Asip4u** · 13-06-05, 11:55 AM

I went to strip clubs quite a few times, mostly with friends. Never while I had a g/f though. It's not considered cheating if you have one and you're at a strip club or you're checking out some girl...that's just stupid...If the world was like that, nobody would ever be in a long term relationship. Most guys will always look at a beautiful girl, it's in our dna, and it will never change no matter what. It doesn't mean we love you any less. I would never sleep with another girl while i'm with someone, that doesn't mean I can't check out any girl. I guess it all depends where you draw the line.

**bluesummer** · 13-06-05, 12:10 PM

Originally Posted by Asip4u

I went to strip clubs quite a few times, mostly with friends. Never while I had a g/f though. It's not considered cheating if you have one and you're at a strip club or you're checking out some girl...that's just stupid...If the world was like that, nobody would ever be in a long term relationship. Most guys will always look at a beautiful girl, it's in our dna, and it will never change no matter what. It doesn't mean we love you any less. I would never sleep with another girl while i'm with someone, that doesn't mean I can't check out any girl. I guess it all depends where you draw the line.

I agree with this post.

**misombra** · 13-06-05, 12:26 PM

i agree too.

there are surely more important things to worry about. there are so many evils and injustices in the world, why are people worried about their men going to gauk and half naked women.

they're not getting anything close to what they get at home. there's not even a molecule of comparison.

hell it made my boyfriend want me MORE!

but i have to say there are those men that go to the strip clubs religiously and really try to get with those girls. it's pathetic as hell to watch. i have known some men get addicted to pornography so i'm SURE there are men out there who take it to the extreme. luckily most men are not like that. moderation people, moderation.

**artyemi** · 13-06-05, 10:09 PM

Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86

It just amazes me there are women out there who are as brainwashed by men as you. You call me names all you want but its not going to change what I believe lol. And you know what? Even if everyone on this site teamed up on me it wouldnt make a difference because even then I wouldnt stump under pressure. I'm not going to call any of you names because I dont feel a need to because I am secure.

Sometimes people stay in a relationship because they feel like they cant do any better. They feel stuck, they might even have children together and are staying for the kids, but I'm not about to believe that you genuinely think this man loves you. I pray and hope that you have more sense in you than that. I really do.
I'm not going to ban you unless you really give me a reason to. If you cant speak to me like an adult and express that you have an opinion without calling me names then of course I would ban you because there is no reason for me to read that.

I hope that you can look inside yourself and ask yourself if youre truly happy with the man you love looking at other women. You need to ask yourself what is missing in the relationship that he feels the need to fill with nude ladies. Just because a man may tell you he loves you, actions speak louder than words, and to me from what I know his actions dont seem to show it.

hahaahahahahaha

Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86

I just find it hard to believe there are women out there who believe that a man who goes to a strip club is being faithful. If he is taking his time from being with you, and his money that he could spend on you, and his eyes away from you and he is spending it with women he doesnt even know you tell me how good your relationship is! You might have in your head "hey this guy really loves me" but maybe YOU need to reevaluate your priorities.

haahahahahahaah

You are SO naive. Is that considered name-calling??

**misombra** · 13-06-05, 10:17 PM

that's it arty you are so on your way to ignored status!

**artyemi** · 13-06-05, 10:20 PM

you know me. I wanna ride on the wagon!!!!!

**shh!** · 13-06-05, 10:21 PM

Soon, those on the "ignored" wagon are going to outnumber those who are not.

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