What do you look for in a man ?

**The Great OV!!!** · 03-03-07, 10:42 AM

Originally Posted by intrepido

RIGHT ON...now confidence in something grander than making cappuccinos lets say, is more attractive than well..makin cappuccinos. I feel that a general confidence that one can do almost anything is important to have. What goes hand in hand with that is a positive attitude, spirit and determination, u cant always "win" but u should always give ur best.

Confidence in less than worthy things can be dangerous though... Id say one very important thing a woman is lookin for is a pureness of character, high moral standing, which can be tough to come by these days (I say that like Ive been around during "other days" maybe its the way its always been with people lying cheating and stealing to get whatever they want)

Confidence or a cockiness in or about something that is not very noble or becoming of a gentlemen can be intriguing for some women if say they are deficient in self esteem, if they wish to change the guy and establish themselves and their looks as powerful or, as women do because they are more compassionate than men, give a jerk guy the benefit of the doubt until he shows them otherwise, which he almost certainly will. This becomes dangerous because a guy like this isnt stupid...he may not have a degree from Harvard (because hes lazy, unmotivated and generally out for only himself, to make money but only in the easiest and least taxing of ways) but hes street smart meaning he knows how to get what he wants and he wont care if he has to lie or act to get it. So said guy will act like hes a king...being loud obnoxious boorish etc and then every so often let a flicker of kindness or sympathy shine through for a woman, they will be intrigued. BUT he knows exactly what hes doing...thankfully this strategy does not work all the time because women are good judges of character and can usually smell a rat.

Long story short, women are lookin for a good man...nice looks, strength, humor etc are all icing on the cake, There are women and men out there that make really good matches with one another, and theyll find each other someday

Dude, Shut the **** up.....seriously...and where the **** is frasbee?!

**jurupa** · 03-03-07, 10:46 AM

Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!

Dude, Shut the **** up.....seriously...and where the **** is frasbee?!

I am stating to think I should pay an escort for you.

**The Great OV!!!** · 03-03-07, 10:51 AM

Originally Posted by jurupa

I am stating to think I should pay an escort for you.

You are stating? come on, I hate it when people like him try to pass opinion as fact. He just has it ALL figured out lol.

**intrepido** · 03-03-07, 10:54 AM

Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!

Dude, Shut the **** up.....seriously...and where the **** is frasbee?!

..........?

**Junket** · 03-03-07, 11:10 AM

Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!

Dude, Shut the **** up.....seriously...and where the **** is frasbee?!

...Huh?

Did somebody call me?

**The Great OV!!!** · 03-03-07, 11:13 AM

Originally Posted by Frasbee

...Huh?

Did somebody call me?

Dude, you post like a whore...and then disapear for months. It sucks with out your posts here...guys like this guy begin to take over with his know it all book length posts damn it. lol

**Junket** · 03-03-07, 11:18 AM

Sorry, busy with work, and lots of shit on my mind.

But yeah, the reason why I haven't been on is mostly work, I just started workin' again and I've been puttin' in the hours.

**Gribble** · 03-03-07, 11:22 AM

Where you working at?

**Junket** · 03-03-07, 11:33 AM

Originally Posted by Gribble

Where you working at?

I'm back at GameStop, got my old boss to re-hire me.

I'm actually working at the store I was hired at maybe a 1/3 of the time. I'm getting all my other hours at other locations in the "area". Do what you gotta, right?

**intrepido** · 03-03-07, 11:46 AM

Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!

You are stating? come on, I hate it when people like him try to pass opinion as fact. He just has it ALL figured out lol.

I re-read my post and it did sound a bit audacious, i didnt mean to sound like i know it all when youre right these are opinions here and thats mine, in some cases. Everyones different and wants different things so no ones to say what anyone else wants...its a forum for posting ideas and thoughts...not to get into an argument but uve refuted everyones responses and ideas about what women want, sayin confidence is overrated, women dont like humor etc... what do u think is important to them?

**The Great OV!!!** · 03-03-07, 11:49 AM

Originally Posted by intrepido

I re-read my post and it did sound a bit audacious, i didnt mean to sound like i know it all when youre right these are opinions here and thats mine, in some cases. Everyones different and wants different things so no ones to say what anyone else wants...its a forum for posting ideas and thoughts...not to get into an argument but uve refuted everyones responses and ideas about what women want, sayin confidence is overrated, women dont like humor etc... what do u think is important to them?

I don't know what is important to them. All I know is the most experienced woman in the world could not tell cocky apart from confidence...in a strange way the two are linked like...love and relationship are. I am not saying you CAN'T be confident and not cocky...it is just that you will not come out looking like you are to other people.

For example, I am confident ...and I am pretty confident that I am confident when I say I am confident lol...but I don't talk..so girls usually don't think I am...and no they can not tell by the way I move my freaking shoulders Giga lol. I don't talk not because I am not confident..but because I have nothing to say.

**intrepido** · 03-03-07, 12:05 PM

Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!

I don't know what is important to them. All I know is the most experienced woman in the world could not tell cocky apart from confidence...in a strange way the two are linked like...love and relationship are. I am not saying you CAN'T be confident and not cocky...it is just that you will not come out looking like you are to other people.

For example, I am confident ...and I am pretty confident that I am confident when I say I am confident lol...but I don't talk..so girls usually don't think I am...and no they can not tell by the way I move my freaking shoulders Giga lol. I don't talk not because I am not confident..but because I have nothing to say.

Ok cool...yea...its either ur cocky or confident...a girl will think of u as cocky then u will could also be confident but she will remember u as cocky...which may not be a bad thing either...

I thought u were hating on the fact that my post seemed a little sappy, which maybe it is but I think theres some truth to it, in my opinion.

**jurupa** · 03-03-07, 12:08 PM

Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!

I don't know what is important to them. All I know is the most experienced woman in the world could not tell cocky apart from confidence...in a strange way the two are linked like...love and relationship are. I am not saying you CAN'T be confident and not cocky...it is just that you will not come out looking like you are to other people.

For example, I am confident ...and I am pretty confident that I am confident when I say I am confident lol...but I don't talk..so girls usually don't think I am...and no they can not tell by the way I move my freaking shoulders Giga lol. I don't talk not because I am not confident..but because I have nothing to say.

And yet your body does the talking for you.

**Seducer** · 03-03-07, 05:12 PM

Confident is saying that u can do something well.
Cocky is saying that ur the best at what you do.

Agree?

**The Great OV!!!** · 04-03-07, 01:18 AM

Originally Posted by Seducer

Confident is saying that u can do something well.
Cocky is saying that ur the best at what you do.

Agree?

no

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