Conan the Cimmerian said it best in one of Robert E. Howard's stories. He pointed out that in Cimmeria everyone is polite and well-mannered, unlike the assholes in so-called civilized cities. Reason being, if you aren't polite and well-mannered around a Cimmerian you get your skull split with an axe. I always loved that passage. Wish I could find it and quote it exactly.