Go in there with your head held high. You are NOT a failure. Act as though you couldn't be happier, even if the inside doesn't feel that way. Letting them see you looking like you've been beat up will only give them a smug satisfaction. Plus sometimes when you pretend to be happy Magic Happens....you actually BECOME Happy! It's amazing lol and it's worth a try. If your in college, then try taking the blinders off and looking around, I bet you'll see there's other girls there