Yep, cause once you are doing it with someone you are in love with it becomes magical..............lol yea okOriginally Posted by Gigabitch
Whocares, it's just sex..whocares it's just weed...whocares it's just job...whocares it's just a career...save a life? whocares it's just a stupid life...kill myself? whocares it's just a stupid life.
You know escort services don't actually have sex with you right? There are bill boards even here in Chicago with escort phone numbers...they just are like dates for hire. Neither do strippers.
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17-03-07, 02:55 AM #76
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Someday you'll believe me. Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!
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Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!
The right ones do. There isn't really a way to know which ones, though. You have to meet people who are in the know and get them to point 'em out to you. In DC you can call up an escort service and they'll send a prostitute straight to your hotel room. In fact, some of them even have websites that allow you to peruse thumbnails of all the ladies they have to offer. Frequently they are photoshopped, though, so you think you're getting a friggin' supermodel but you wind up with a heffer.
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17-03-07, 05:16 AM #79
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Yeah, I also believe that prositution should be legal everywhere in everyone of it's aspects. But since it's not well seen at the eyes of most authorities, most prostitutes will continue to work in the dark, even living off pimps and getting abused by them.
Fortunatly for my girl, she's smart and good enough to be independent, and knows how to make the big bucks by herself while keeping a low profile, although that, well... that sorta makes her an outlaw girl, lol.
I think that now I realize that I like bad girls
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17-03-07, 07:41 AM #80
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Just shows you prefer to be the one wearing the dress. Originally Posted by love-fool
I think that now I realize that I like bad girls ...
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Read This And Survive
This isn't about liking bad girls, this isn't about a plan, this is about you realizing you are spending your days and nights thinking about a girl you will NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVEREVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVEREVER EVEREVER EVER NEVER be in a serious relationship with. LET IT GO. SHE'S DAMAGED GOODS. You're the mayor of crazy town - population YOU.
The ONLY WAY to make yourself feel better (i promise) is to go cold turkey.
No contact. good luck. if not, you're throwing your days away. i'm 100% sure of it.
(in 3 months you'll feel a lot better)
I'm a stranger, but one who has your best interests in mind.....trust me.Last edited by surfnsand; 17-03-07 at 08:55 AM.
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17-03-07, 08:54 AM #82
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This guy knows what's up.
Least on this particular subject.
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Frasbee, do you REALLY have to keep bugging my ass every time I post something? Even if you're just trying to be helpful, you can get to be annoying at times, no offense, though... Originally Posted by Frasbee
I appreciate the concern, surfnsand, I feel a lot better already, but I do realize that this girl and I will never be more than good friends, if only things were different, maybe, just MAYBE she and I could be together forever, but unfortunatly, they are not, and I've stopped kidding myself since some time ago, but I just like her too much to just pretend that she doesn't even exists, I will be around for her whenever she needs me, yes, maybe I'm a fool, just like my nickname says, but I am not the kind of guy who will turn his back on someone whenever he or she needs someone to have a serious conversation with, I'm probably the only guy with who she can just act like herself, and I believe that that's saying a lot... Originally Posted by surfnsand
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17-03-07, 09:40 AM #84
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it's your life....
But, if you want to be a hero there's a lot better ways to save the world than obsessing over this woman. a lot better ways.
i know you are her rescuer and you feel you are the only one that understands her, and connects with her, and can read her, and can share souls with her, and feel alive with her, and save her....But there is a VERY good chance you are living a fantasy. You are obsessing over damaged goods. Why? A therapist might help you understand. Really.
I am not sure how old you are, or what your career aspirations are, but life is ridiculously SHORT, and this is not a recipe for success buddy.
Please, breathe deep and ask yourself if you want to to the hard thing/the man thing and walk away...or the easy thing and keep obsessing.
Character is fate.
translation: you may not be able to help yourself...
But i am rooting for you.
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Originally Posted by surfnsand
Ok man, thanks, but... I would like to make a small correction here, I don't think that this is a matter about obsessing, but it's about caring, maybe I've overdone it a little before, but I just need to back up the truck a bit at times and give her her space, that's all.
Um, just for the record, since now you're wondering, I'm 22 years old, I'm a digital artist making publicity for a showbusiness company, and I make my own digital projects as well with still images and videos.
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addicts never see their addiction, that's why they have things called interventions. this was yours.
my guess is you're not ready for any help or the hard solutions.
prayers and best wishes.
*interestingly, you've unconsciously brought anger and dysfunction now online...look how this thread has evolved. you are carrying this dysfunction wherever you go. even online.Last edited by surfnsand; 17-03-07 at 10:52 AM.
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Man, you are a ****ing idiot. What a smart girl, she know how to sell herself all by herself...you should be happy for her. Don't you care there are dirty man ****ing your "girl"....probably right now? lol Originally Posted by love-fool
Fortunatly for my girl, she's smart and good enough to be independent, and knows how to make the big bucks by herself while keeping a low profile, although that, well... that sorta makes her an outlaw girl, lol.
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Dude, do you think that I just don't care about that? of course I freakin' do! and she knows how I feel about her job, I don't need to remind her every minute that I worry about her because she knows that already. Although that I wish that she would quit this kind of job, it's her decision, and her's alone as an independent woman, you guys just don't understand much of this because I'm sure that very few of you have had or have a friend that does this for a living. At least I don't worry too much about her because she is selective with her clients, and there's always a bodyguard near her wherever she goes for a job, so that makes me feel better in a way, but if she was a lonely street prostitute working for some goddamn pimp on the lookout for ANY kind of man with money, wich she's not, now THAT would terrify me... Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!
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Eh, whatever.
I just hope for your sake that you eventually seek out someone who'll appreciate you.
I don't believe anybody here said there was anything wrong with being this woman's friend.
But quite frankly I think even you cannot deny your time and emotional investment in this woman has definitely been unhealthy for your well-being.
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Well, I don't hate you or anything. I don't know everything about you or her...but what I just really cannot understand is how you can respect her so much. Even other prostitutes will leave their jobs at the first opportunity that comes along, but they usually can't because they have a baby to support and no father...while also trying to provide a roof and everything on their own...this is no better but these girls have no way out...while the girl you are with seems to have an option, she can go with you...I am sure you can help her with support and a roof over her head, maybe even other things...but she just doesn't care...she likes what she is...which is why I think everyone here just feels sorry for you and the effort that you are putting into this woman. I know I feel sorry for you because clearly you have a big heart and are a nice guy. Like Frasbee said, you can be her friend...that is fine and it doesn't matter...no one is saying you can't be...but don't invest your love life into her...personally I don't think she deserves you. Originally Posted by love-fool
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