Don't know how to react

[pcmaster]

Thats why im afraid of serious relationship. Because sometimes you can see the end before it starts. I think its smarter not to be afraid and enyoj every day, just focus on quality not lenght. Get the most of it while it last and dont thing about the end. Maybe it works with marriage too.

[HeartIsAching]

The thought of getting married scares the hell outa me-even gives me anxiety as so many marriages end in an affair. I dont think any man is worth going through that pain for.. And i know if i get married my anxiety will remain except it will be a fear of divorce..

That's one of the ways to know you've got it right - you can go into it with nothing in your heart but joy. No fear, no doubt, just happiness.

Took me a long time to figure that out. Listen to your heart, it'll tell you.

[michelle23]

Thank you-i know your right. I love my man and trust him completely. Hes a good man-honest, decent, loyal and kind. I dont think i have anything to worry about with him. I just have this fear "what if he changes" or "what kf hes not the sanme man i love now in 20 years" i know its silly to think that far ahead. I just have to focus on now

[HeartIsAching]

Both of you WILL change. You WILL grow. You won't stay static... but that doesn't mean that your growth and change can't include each other. Grow together. Accept each others' changes. Learn and love and laugh.

[michelle23]

Ya im hoping well grow together and not apart. I just meant i dont want his loyalty to me to change or his love for me

[Douchbag]

Dont worry
No one will. We all refuses.. If you read her thread we all told her to come clean..But to no avail..I´m sorry..

[Douchbag]

How did you find it? I don't really care who sees this anymore, it's done as far as I'm concerned, but I'd prefer Cheryl to not see it for obvious reasons. Like I said yesterday, she can keep her ring... I'm done with it all.

Dont worry
No one will. We all refuses.. If you read her thread we all told her to come clean..But to no avail..I´m sorry..

[SimplyAmorous]

Not right now...it will take time to grieve this loss...but someday when you are sitting on the back porch with your wife, a bearer of a new ring, a faithful & true woman ....that shows you daily she appreciates you for all you are , and have been in her life.. you will look up at the stars and thank the heavens above that you discovered these LIES once upon a time.....this was meant to be... to divert your path from this woman...

Celebrate the wreckage you avoided on this one....& have a great time with your Guys friends... Try to not loose faith in all women though.