Seeking advice about discovering a past incestual relationship.

[bcgirl]

No, I was just saying the only murder that I can remember in my area was when a guy killed his ex-wife and then killed himself, and that happened at least 5 years ago. It was you that posted that comment about my boyfriend could be a serial rapist and chopping up young girls. I said I can't believe he capable of doing such things.

Yes and the statistics of this happening is close to none. But, can you see her fiancé jerkin off to that video on his laptop? Do u suspect this to be a high possibility. I think that's more what we should be concerned about

[searock]

Lisa, have you talked to your boyfriend yet?

[PradaChanel]

The OP clearly has a low self esteem. I had to stop reading what she was saying because it was that stupid. You are a str8 fool. This whole thing is digusting. Hell, if he can get away with doing his sister he might as well do yours too.

I doubt it was something he was forced to do. He kept those videos for memories and also they went to Europe? Im sure he hit it then too. I really believe if the cirumstances was different, he would be with her and not you.

[PradaChanel]

Also, I bet if he was doing another chick you would confront him about that but you too scared to confront him about the sister? Smh. Who the hell does that? This whole thing is absurd, I cant believe your lost in this situation. He wouldve felt small and embarrassed by the time I got done with him.

[Nicki XoXo]

Wow, I cant believe Lisa actually got some sympathy. Well you go girlfriend, I guess me dating a married man is way worst then you sticking around with someone who been inside of his sister. On a more serious note, you definately need to leave him. It shouldnt even be open for discussion. Incest is nasty and disgusting and his indictive behavior with his sister cleary says that they think what they did was normal or they see nothing wrong with it and Im sure to this day they smile and flirt, as if its their best kept secret. I guess its yours too now!

[bcgirl]

Nicki, your comment sucks. Firstly dating a married man suggests you to have no integrity or regard for other ppl. Secondly, if he didn't think anything was wrong with the fact of him sexting up his sis he wouldn't be keeping it such a secret. DUH!

[Nicki XoXo]

Based off what Lisa posted, he doesnt seem to have any integrity or morals, values etc. If he will do his sister, he will do anybodys. Of course hes keeping it secret because he knows what he did was sick and doesnt want to be viewed as a creep or pervert, thats the only reasons why. If he felt that way then why would he keep those memories, If he felt it was wrong he wouldnt did it in the first place, yes I had a relationship with a married man, yes I screwed a married man, screwing a sister or brother and recording it is worst, yes we went on vacations, better it be a married man then a sibling. if he thought it was wrong their relationship would be different, he just dont want anyone else to know but he likes what they did. Duh! Smdh

[surfhb2]

Based off what Lisa posted, he doesnt seem to have any integrity or morals, values etc. If he will do his sister, he will do anybodys. Of course hes keeping it secret because he knows what he did was sick and doesnt want to be viewed as a creep or pervert, thats the only reasons why. If he felt that way then why would he keep those memories, If he felt it was wrong he wouldnt did it in the first place, yes I had a relationship with a married man, yes I screwed a married man, screwing a sister or brother and recording it is worst, yes we went on vacations, better it be a married man then a sibling. if he thought it was wrong their relationship would be different, he just dont want anyone else to know but he likes what they did. Duh! Smdh

Niki gets the Intergity of the Year Award next to this lost girl. At least she managed to figure it out

[michelle23]

Wow, I cant believe Lisa actually got some sympathy. Well you go girlfriend, I guess me dating a married man is way worst then you sticking around with someone who been inside of his sister. On a more serious note, you definately need to leave him. It shouldnt even be open for discussion. Incest is nasty and disgusting and his indictive behavior with his sister cleary says that they think what they did was normal or they see nothing wrong with it and Im sure to this day they smile and flirt, as if its their best kept secret. I guess its yours too now!

Are you for real? So you think the fact you didn't bang your brother makes it somehow okay to bang a married man. lmfao! You are more deluded than I thought. Are you the materialistic shallow high class escort? I'm trying to remember.

Just because you didn't commit incest-does not make what you did okay and it still gives you no integrity.

Playing the "poor me" card will not help you. Lisa has not done anything wrong unlike you. She discovered something shocking and she is still in denial. Shell snap outa that fairly fast and run for the hills. You on the other hand stuck around and were happy to be number two and didn't give two ****s who you hurt in the process.

[Nicki XoXo]

Well I dont think Lisa is in denial. She just doesnt want to leave him. What is there to doubt? He was on candy coated camera. If she was going to run for the hills she would be there already. Normally if you hear about something or have questions, thats one thing but to see it is confirmation. I was commenting as far as him getting some sort of benefit of the doubts when its clear what the intentions was with his sister even now to this day.
You all are right about as far as saying I was wrong, I get that. I didnt need for anyone to tell me that in the first place. You need to learn the definition of escort and girlfriend Miss.
Yes, I was being shallow and no I wasnt showing my morals or values or integrity. Your right, I was all about myself, I couldnt see past what I wanted so that made me an asshole, but the difference is I'm not anymore.

[bcgirl]

Hmm so being some married man's sloppy seconds all the while knowing this yet agreeing to spread your legs knowing that you are a home wrecker and will never be his first yet being okay with that somehow in your twisted head makes you a better person than someone that accidentally found out about her bf's incest yet in denial about how to communicate this to her bf? Nope sorry Nikki, you lose. A prostitute would have more integrity, at least she is making money for screwing married men.

[bearz]

A prostitute would have more integrity, at least she is making money for screwing married men.

In her defense, she probably scored more money and goodies from that guy than a prostitute ever will. He even got her pregnant as a tip. Isn't that nice of him?

[bcgirl]

^ ah yes, I remember that post. 2nd pregnancy too by this man who wants nothing to do with it and made her snort the first one.

[bcgirl]

We also need to remember that we have no idea what exactly is going on. Only the brother and sister involved do. There is a probability that there was a third party involved that could very well have groomed the Tweens into such acts. This is why it is so CRUCIAL for Lisa to have a talk with her fiancé so she can get some questioned answered. So at least she doesn't marry a man who she will forever have strong lingering questions. The op is still young in her early 20's...but what will happen when she is ready to have children with her husband? Will she forever think, what if he is capable of incest with her own son/daughter? Etc. etc. ones imagination can run wild. That's why it is now Lisa's duty to get some lingering questions answered before saying her "I do's". And no, it shouldn't be only between bro and sis to sort out their mess. You are involved to. Get a hold of your life and figure out as much as you can about the man you will one day call husband, because right now you only know the surface of him.

[michelle23]

Well I dont think Lisa is in denial.

Why are you so sure about that? You don't no her. She just found out the man she is about to marry has had this dirty secret for as long as shes known him and she never suspected a thing. Of course shes in shock and denial. Its a defense mechanism. This info is too big and she cannot cope with it right now. A perfectly normal reaction. I'm sure your sugar daddys wife would react the exact same way if she found out about you.