Help with a complicated situation (Reader's Digest version)

[cathliya]

oh god! its simple, she's confuse!! she doesn't know if she truely love the other guy or you...or if she is inlove with the other guy she doesn't know if she should give up the opportunity with having a great husband that u are or not....it doesn't mean she didn't love you...it means she's lost and i bet she is still lost...

if my ex ever bought a ring and have a proper propose i wouldn't have to be in such a mess right now....suck!! where the heck is the happy ending...

by the way, i just wan to say how sweet u are and m sure, more than sure that u deserve a person that know what she want and not playing games with u....

[Gigabitch]

Quit banging your head against this wall, A_I_C. Look forward, not back.

[Am_I_Crazy]

Quit banging your head against this wall, A_I_C. Look forward, not back.

I know....

I am just frustrated. I know that she went on vacation with her parents and while she was gone I kept having a feeling she was thinking about me. I guess I was right.

Anyway -- I wish I could offload this ring. I paid $1,600 for it, I think $1000 is fair. No hits on ebay whatsoever.

[Gigabitch]

I'll trade you for an 800 lb. desk I have.

[Am_I_Crazy]

I'll trade you for an 800 lb. desk I have.

haha, good one. How about 3.50 and half a cheese sammich?

[Gigabitch]

I don't know if Pay Pal does that sort of thing. I'll look into it.

[vashti]

Anyway -- I wish I could offload this ring. I paid $1,600 for it, I think $1000 is fair. No hits on ebay whatsoever.

That's because you wrote that it is silver plated. That means CHEAP. Also, you mention nothing about the clarity. These things are very important to anyone who knows anything about diamonds.

[Am_I_Crazy]

That's because you wrote that it is silver plated. That means CHEAP. Also, you mention nothing about the clarity. These things are very important to anyone who knows anything about diamonds.

I did mention the clarity. It's a K on the D-Z scale (D is the brightest).

Can you help me describe the ring then???

It's silver but says 14ct on the inside of the ring.

[vashti]

Eh, sorry. Obviously I only skimmed your ad, but the "gold with silver plate" caught my eye. I would guess it is really white gold or platinum, either being much more valuable.

Also, I don't think I would have stated the reason behind why you are selling the ring. People are superstitious, and they may think your ring is bad luck. Just stick with the facts.

[Am_I_Crazy]

Eh, sorry. Obviously I only skimmed your ad, but the "gold with silver plate" caught my eye. I would guess it is really white gold or platinum, either being much more valuable.

Also, I don't think I would have stated the reason behind why you are selling the ring. People are superstitious, and they may think your ring is bad luck. Just stick with the facts.

Ok, if it doesn't sell I will relist the ad. I'll take the info from the certification and receipt and re-post it.

Considering it was $1,600.00 how much do you think is fair for the ring, considering it hasn't ever been worn?

[vashti]

I couldn't say. I actually don't know all that much about jewelry. Check e-bay for similar size/quality stones and see what they are asking for theirs.

[Am_I_Crazy]

Interesting. She was on my site again Sunday night and was browsing through old pictures of me. A lot of them...

Why? Why is she going back to my web site?? What's the purpose?

[Gigabitch]

Dude, take my advice and stop checking. Just stop it. you can't move on if you won't let go. You need to go on a date with someone else.

[derm]

Ok, if it doesn't sell I will relist the ad. I'll take the info from the certification and receipt and re-post it.

Considering it was $1,600.00 how much do you think is fair for the ring, considering it hasn't ever been worn?

Will give you a grand for it!

[Am_I_Crazy]

Dude, take my advice and stop checking. Just stop it. you can't move on if you won't let go. You need to go on a date with someone else.

I have been. Trust me, I don't want to hang on to her (she's still seeing the other guy). I do know that she talked to her sister and maybe her sister got her to see things in a different perspective.

And so far I have been on three dates and I am NOT happy with anyone I have met. Trust me when I say I really HATE the fact that I am not letting go completely. This is hard, I love her and wanted to marry her.

And yes, I am going to Counseling. I told my Counselor about her looking at my site and he said basically there are a multitude of reasons but that it did mean she was at least "thinking" about me. There's no other reason for her to go to my site.