Be gentle people as i`m finding this tough. I`m a guy in my early 40`s never really had any sort of relationship to speak of with a women but for the last few month`s i`ve found myself attracted to a women in work. She`s 10 years younger than me from another country & someone i`d thought i`d would never be attracted to. She`s in my mind day & night i get all flustered when she messages me on facebook or texts me. I`ve even cried over this & that`s something i never do!
The thing is she know`s i have feelings for her as i`ve made them pretty obvious.I asked her out to the cinema a few week back but she said she has someone she likes to spend her free time with! She live`s with a guy but close friends of her`s have told me they are not together & are just good friends. I have`nt directly asked her as i thought it would be awkward. We flirt with each other pretty much all day in work & other people have noticed this & it`s becoming increasingly harder for me to cover up & people are now winding me up about it! The other day we chatted for a while & i just got lost in her eye`s & wanted desperately to kiss her.
I know i`m probably wasting my time but i simply adore this women. Should i tell her i more than just like her? I`m afraid that if i do i`ll lose a person that has become very close to my heart!
Any advice would be great!