... And zero contact leads to indifference.. indifference leads you to emotional freedom from the past.
You need to go zero contact with her. Stop contacting her in every way and delete her from all the dumb sites where people get to advertise themselves for the world to see and get attention from strangers on.
It's over and for whatever reason you guys were'nt meant to last the test of time. You'll eventually get over her if you aren't in each others faces every other week. There will be girls in your future (or there have already been girls) that you will be the one to break up with and immediately get with another girl until you find one that is a good life mate for you and thinks you will be a good life mate for her. But: You won't be able to do that until you cleanse this ex from your system. The only way to do that is to stop being anywhere near her in person or through electronic means.
Keep yourself busy by doing things that interest you and you find fun doing. Be with your friends and let them help you keep busy. Join a co-ed sports league and meet happy, healthy and exciting singles like yourself. First be happy that your single and you'll find someone who is right for you.
Be an interesting person with a passion and you will be interesting to members of the opposite sex.
Be the best you that you can be and start to forget the old you who was with someone who wasnt' good enough for you.
Last edited by Wakeup; 18-06-11 at 03:58 AM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion