Hi Laser 2006.
She left you and you are feeling pain. I cannot say that I understand your pain or ever will. From your post it is obvious that you helped her a lot and loved her as your one woman.
But you are asking that she stay with you because you helped her. That is kind of wrong in that it seems to indicate that you did not help her with her pregnancy out of love! But I am sorry if I am wrong.
I never did and never will understand this thing about giving space and respecting her wishes. There is no right given to any person that they may act rudely and be complete pricks to the person who loved and cared for them and then have the insolence to demand that their <sarcasm> space </sarcasm> be respected.
I am sorry but I would say that you are going to be in pain for quite some time. First love hurts a lot for a long time. Knuckle up and get some chocolates and try not to be alone.
Keep us updated mate.
Take care
Hussain
Are there no prisons? Are there no workhouses? - The Ghost of Christmas Past