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    Over the internet?

    This is my story...

    It all stared me making a bebo...LOL i know...as time go random people add me..
    and yata yata yata....

    This girl added me yup...we chatted through bebo for a while, around couple of days...then i asked for her email...and yup added her on msn...we chatted...

    as time go i find my self liking her....i have confessed to her my feelings knowing
    it's impossible well not really...we live in the same country...but different state...

    I live in South Australia at the capital Adelaide and her self New South Wales at the capital Sydney...and yup...i rarely go their....but yup....umm...so i think its not that impossible or is it from you guys point of view?..

    mmmm...this is the first time...i feel for a girl over the net....and if ya wondering if i ever had a girl friend the answer is yes, but non has givining me this feeling like i worry for the girl i like...i wonder....

    mmm and yup...she told me if i were their she will accept me...so now i m thinking should i take a visit to sydney and meet her up?

    mmm not sure...any one ever experience this situation..?

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    Take it from me, the love you find on the Internet and the relationship(s) you can develop there are 100% real. People have to get over seeing the fact that an "Internet relationship is a joke". It's not. You're close by and since you've got traveling means, yes, go for it, do your best, see where it gets you.

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    Be careful though, while some internet dates might work, some can turn out to be absolute psycho's and turn very weird on you, I tried internet dating on two occasions, one continuously lied to me and the other kept putting off meeting up, despite us being in the same city, its put me off internet dating all together (even if the thing doesnt work out from my problem thread)

    My best advice is to maybe ask to double date instead or just bring a friend as backup in case he/she starts getting strange.

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    I think long distance relationships are pointless unless there are definite plans to remedy the living arrangements.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Dating over the Internet justifies robbing an old lady of her purse and then walking up to a random car dealer, and with the intent to sterilize him tap his nuts with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    I think long distance relationships are pointless unless there are definite plans to remedy the living arrangements.
    IT NEVER ****ING WORKS.

    look at my mom. ever since she divorced my dad she has been meeting random people off the internet. none of them worked out. we even moved to south dakota for the current one. HE IS AN A-S-S-H-O-L-E and she wishes she never did it. but ****, she still probably wants to date on the internet. some people just don't learn anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilwing View Post
    IT NEVER ****ING WORKS.
    very to the point, and so, so true.

    there's always that worry of whether or not the person you're dating long distance is getting bored and looking for something closer to them. Then you start getting suspicious, for no reason sometimes. then you get bitter.

    it's just a big emotional mess.

    "In the future, everyone will be famous for 15 minutes..." -Andy Warhol

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    =O

    thanks guy ^^

    appreciate the comments mmmm

    yup i have decided to go see her =) since my school break is coming up =)

    if this works out =) i sure thanks for the advices =p

    also their this thing i got tto say...umm since im half jap..

    and she is chinese and she's from nanjing a place during the wars the jap

    invaded and kill and raped..heaps of people...and i think her parrents may do

    not like me and especially i m half cast of japanese/chinese..cuz she told

    me about how japs killed and raped their....

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilwing View Post
    IT NEVER ****ING WORKS.
    Thanks for your vote of confidence.

    Dick.

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    Quote Originally Posted by beamer View Post
    =O

    thanks guy ^^
    *girl ):

    ...Are you in an internet relationship, friz?

    "In the future, everyone will be famous for 15 minutes..." -Andy Warhol

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    I don't know about the online dating thing always failing. My cousin married a girl he met through an online dating service (the priest mentioned this at the wedding, no one knew before then how they knew eachother! You should have seen the looks on all our faces).
    I'm not sure how long they had been talking or whatever online, but he introduced me and my family to her about half a year before they got married. They've been married about 10 months so far.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Steve2004 View Post
    *girl ):

    ...Are you in an internet relationship, friz?
    No, but it is long distance at the moment.

    We've been talking about moving closer together, the soonest being this September.

    I should send you the links to get you updated on my love life.

    A lot as happened (with me) since you've been gone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post

    I should send you the links to get you updated on my love life.

    A lot as happened (with me) since you've been gone.
    please do! i'm curious

    "In the future, everyone will be famous for 15 minutes..." -Andy Warhol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Steve2004 View Post
    please do! i'm curious
    I PMed you, so as to no longer hi-jack this guy's thread.

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    i think it works. i know it worked for some people. it just...takes a whole lot of work.

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