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    texting or calling for a date?

    Met up with a girl onc ethat I met on a dating site. We agreed that we needed to meet up again.

    Girls, do you like it better if a guy calls or texts you to plan a date???

    Does claling show more confidence?

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    I know plenty of women who wouldnt give you the time of day if you ask for a date with a text. Call

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    I agree, call for a date always. Bring flowers too.

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    Good gawd... don't bring flowers unless you're already in a relationship. There is plenty of time to give her flowers once you know you both like each other EQUALLY.. You'll just put pressure on her to like you before she's ready if you bring flowers after only one date. Unless of course she's invited you over while she makes you dinner.. then it would be a nice reciprocal gift.

    Oh yea and definately call her for the next date.

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    Um ask her in person? normaly works

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    I really liked flowers on a first date......I didn't find it too wishy washy or creepy needy.

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    I don't buy flowers on the first date. Womens' opinions vary too much on that. Besides, I want her to like me for my personality, not what I can buy her.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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    Call to ask her on the date... text that morning to confirm the time you will pick her up.

    And don't bring flowers. It's too soon. Wait another few dates.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    I didn't think that spending a few bucks flowers would set such a horrible impression. My bad.

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