So my gf of 4 years broke it off with me.. its been 4 months of very low contact, she would contact me like once a month and I would always cut the conversations short.
I never initiated contact once except to say happy birthday to her.
Now recently she has been calling me a few times in the last week because some very bad things have happened to her. She calls me crying about her problems.
I just act all positive and happy and tell her to hang in there and other positive stuff, then I cut off the conversation after cheering her up a bit.
What the hell does this mean!? I get the feeling she is using me for emotional support.
But the thing is I don't act like a wussy at all on the phone with her. I feel in control of the conversation and don't feel severely attached to her like i did during the break up.
She is long distance and I have changed soo much.. my physical looks, my internal thoughts, and my goals have changed drastically. I'll be seeing her in person in 3 weeks.
How should i handle this? And yes i still have feelings for her but i CAN let her go if i have to.