Hi,
So we argue a little bit about simple thing. We argue about I'm the one who always pay whenever we eat together.
She asked me if I feel bother always the one who paid the bills.
I said, it's not like that. I don't feel bother.
It's about me need to save money for the future, like married, business, and stuff. So, I need her to pay the bill sometimes when she get a job (she still looking for a job).
I know unwritten rules about men who should always pay the bill but I don't think that's fair. Of course men should pay more, but women should pay to sometimes.
She said that I speak like I don't know her, that my words doesn't make her understand, but instead make her think..
Is she being a drama queen ? Of course men can't ever understand women, I'm just being reasonable to her.
What should I do, should I ignore this problem and go on?
Or try to understand her more? Or she's the one who should understand me more?
Thanks in Advance.
Regards,