Originally Posted by
annoyed23
Wow...thats a great question. I dont want to control him, I want to be reasurred that he is satisfied and happy with me. Its not jealousy, its concern that I am not meeting his every need sexually, and that would bother me if he isnt open enough to tell me that. Fantisies are fine, I dont mind it...but my question is, why would a man jerk off if he knows hes going to get sex within the next few hours? we have sex every day...i can understand if he did it in the morning, but yesterday he did it 2 hours before i got home. It made me feel like i wasnt worth waiting for. another question i have is: if a man jerks off, and has sex later that same night, is the sex any less pleasurable? for me, if i get myself off and then have sex, the sex is horrible! I want him to hunger for me like i do for him...is that so wrong?