Can I ask you why you just didn't ask her why she was lying to you, why you didn't come right out and say "Why are you trying to shoot me the shit when we both know that that is the guy you opened your legs for last year?" (you would use your own words of course but they would mean the exact same thing).
She said she wants to go visit him at some stage...
Tell her that if she ever goes anywhere to meet him, that you'll look forward to the trip along with her and that it's always nice to meet the friends of one's SIGNIFICANT other. That is of course if you are actually Significant and not just some place holder like you appear to be. (not exactly saying she is still promiscuous but she had definately not closed the door on all these guys she once fkd.)
Never be afraid of the answer to questions that must be asked. You are looking after your emotional health when you are making sure you know where you stand with someone. Especially when they appear to be promiscuous ball freaks who haven't given up their past.
I don't understand why so many of the young people on this board would rather come here and ask us the very question(s) you should be asking your SO's. Afterall, they are who you will know the truth. Surely you won't hide from her lying ways for much longer.
Last edited by Wakeup; 07-08-11 at 03:27 AM.
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