So I've been hanging out with this guy periodically. We get along really great and talk about almost everything but we're also having sex. Last time we hung out he kept asking when we could chill again so we made plans for a few days later. he didn't call or text I texted him first. I asked if he still wanted to hang out and he said "sorry i just dont feel hanging out today" saying that he had spent the night and day at a friends apartment and just wasn't in the mood. Now I don't naturally jump to conclusions but.. to be on the safe side is there a good chance he is lying and just doesn't want to hang out with me? Or is he just one of those people who need their "alone" time?
Which is perfectly understandable. I just find it odd last time we hung out he contacted me as soon as he got home and we talked all night. Then again the next day. It's like he goes through phases where he likes me alot and then wants nothing to do with me, its all very confusing. So am I just a random friend with benefits? Or maybe more but he needs space?