so the girl that i love very much just broke up with me after 1 year. she said she loves me very much, but at the same time she can't see pass my imperfections. that even though i treat her really good. i don't meet her requirements that she wants. it's a really long and complicated situation, so i'll keep it short. what should i do? i really love her a lot. i'm 19 still young i know. there are others out there. but theres just something about her i love that i don't want to let go.sigh..
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18-05-07, 03:45 PM #1
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i got dumped =|
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18-05-07, 03:49 PM #2
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OH, Naoki - I'm so sorry to hear! It really sucks to be dumped - I know - I've been there.....
....Start by being really nice to yourself. It is okay to be upset, and cry and mope around for a little bit.
....Indulge yourself (but not for too long).
Take care!!!
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18-05-07, 04:38 PM #3
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I don't know any specifics, but to me, loving someone means loving their imperfections as well. Doesn't sound like she does that. However, you're 19 and the world is your oyster. After time does it's work, go out there and find someone worthy of what you have to give.
There are some things you just can't explain with the word... fate. You're just going to have to see it with your own eyes.
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19-05-07, 01:33 AM #4
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Wow. So she thinks she can find a perfect guy? I think you should smile bitterly to yourself and wish her luck with that one, as sarcastically as possible.
Someday, she'll look back on this and laugh at herself for dumping someone who loved her because of "imperfections".Spammer Spanker
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Yeah. People do stupid shit at 19.
Originally Posted by Gigabitch
Unless this was just a bad excuse. That's always a large possibility.
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19-05-07, 01:57 AM #6
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Mathias you cock, where the **** you been? Originally Posted by Mathias
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Busy, dude. Took 18 hours of grad school to graduate this semester. Originally Posted by Frasbee
How's NOLA?
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19-05-07, 03:03 AM #8
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She's comin' up to visit next weekend, w00t. Originally Posted by Mathias
Unfortunately, I might have to work part of that weekend.
Not-w00t...
I'm still fighting with my boss about it.
Otherwise, yeah, I'm in school now, don't know you were around for that, for building maintenance, my teacher told me I could grab a job working part time for an appliance shop at about 13 bucks an hour. Better than part time at GameStop for 8.50. Know what I mean?
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::sigh:: OV, you're a nut. I adore you, but you're a nut.
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OV? Originally Posted by Gigabitch
What are you talkin' about?
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Blah. Wrong thread. I'm having connectivity problems today. I've had to restart my modem twice. Originally Posted by Frasbee
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I'm gonna kill myself if Giga can't get on the net LOL!
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19-05-07, 03:30 AM #13
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Sounds like maybe your mind is a bit foggy.
Is it that time of month?
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thx fo the feedbacks guys.
she knows what she's doing isnt the best of idea. she's a very emotional person and gives me shit about a lot of stuff. but i don't care, she does make me happy. whats happy without being sad right? she says she just cant change. said it's too hard or something. i dont know. i on the other hand did everything to make this relationship work. but i learned that being in a relationship is a two person job. not getting anywhere if the other person isn't really doing much...
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I'm glad you can see it's not your fault. That's a large part of getting over someone. Originally Posted by naoki322
Do you have friends to hang out with?Spammer Spanker
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