Hi all. I just needed to get an opinion on something. Theres a huge 6 month history on whats been going on between me and my wife but to sum it up basically she told me she didnt love me anymore about 6 months ago and then for a 3 month period was acting like someone ive never known b4.
I held it together and stayed in there for her and we supposebly made it through our problems and were together. I am 95% positive in my head it was all due to her having an affair but shell never ever admit it for the sake of loosing our son in court.
The other day Yesterday i found a reciept dated 1-14-2005 for a pregnancy test. And it was paid with cash. This is significant because we always use charge for even a 50 cents purchase becuase i record everything in a file. I belive she used cash so it wasnt traceable on one of my cc's. Also we have not had sex since 8-2004 so i know she didnt think id be my baby. So I asked her about it and she flipped on me saying "i dont even want to talk to you right now, you thihnk i bought a pregnancy test?" And i just hung up on her I couldnt here it I knew she would deny it. Then when i got home from work she stated she was going to her friend (a guy) house tj. I got home at 10:30 at night on a fri and she wants to hang out with another guy? Well anyway so I of course got angry and said a few things and slammed the door. S
So this morning i brought it up to her again and she tried saying it was for a friend and shes sworen to secrecy. There should be no secrets in marriage i belive. but all she can do is fight with me. Not even fight with me about defending herself but just plain fight with me. Then i checked the mileage on the car and it was the exact mileage to her friend daves house who is the afffair guy in question. So i bring that up to her and she flips. I just need to know what the hell to do. This has drawn the line for me. Just need some others opinions. Thank you all in advance!