First of all I would like to say hello to everyone here because I'm new. Well, I came here to tell you my story and please give me some answers, because I can't answer to them myself and I tried over and over again.
So, its like this. I have been seeing some girl this year. We got to know each other in Nov/Dec last year and we made a good progress in being friends in January. We were talking like 4 hours / day some days... also online from time to time, played tennis... and some random stuff that just came by. I was always kinda like flirting with her and she reacted like she liked it. I was testing her a lot of time. I mean I was sitting like 1 meter away from her watching her directly in her eyes not looking away, but she did look away every 2 seconds and a lot more things like that. I really thought that is it. But there was always something different present.
Time passing by, because of my actions she got to know by herself that I obviously like her and she slowly began to kinda move back a little. I was going to ask her out for valentine day. I think she kinda knew it and the day before she told me that she got apart with her previous boyfriend 3 months ago and she's not looking for any relationship at all.
I know this girl and I think this really is true. She is very nice, caring and compassionate person. I believe her. She said we should stay friends. Well, today is 1 month from that. It was the hardest month of my whole life. I was being like really stubborn and sad. All of my friends noticed it.
What I want to do right now is to get her back as a friend. Yesterday it was the first time I spoke to her since that happened. A few sentences, but it was a start.
I want to ask her if it's possible to get back to the same friend relationship as we were before. Meanwhile I want to show her that I'm a good person to have around too and not only a guy who wants sex like the most. Maybe there still is a chance for us, because I will never forget all the things we were thru.
Please write your oppinion of what you think. And keep in mind that everything I wrote is like I mean it and here is no pretending.