As a lot of you guys who've read my posts, I've never been on a date and that I've been rejected. This question may sound the same as my other posts but, I need a REALISTIC view on what makes you guys ask out a woman you're interested in. Seriously guys: what do I have to do to give you the green light for you to approach and ask out on a date if you're already interested? I've never been approached (but I'm super shy, I'll not look at anyone's face when out especially guys' faces). I still know that if I wasn't shy they'd still probably not approach me.
My 20 year old sister has yet to go on her first date. She's had guys interested in her but not ask her out on a date. Instead, she'd go over to their house or go to the local races.
It's very strange... my sister is now pregnant by a guy she's seen for a few weeks and he's never asked her out on a date once and they were going to get married after meeting twice. I'm so embarrassed that I've never been asked out. I'm feeling beyond ugly and repulsive.
I feel undeserving of anyone's love, I couldn't even get my parents' love-- cuz there's something wrong with me and my siblings. I get super jealous when I read posts on this forum about people in relationships and when I see girls with super sexy guys holding hands etc. when I'm out... which is rare. I only go to Wal-mart, library, mall (rarely), church, and maybe a couple of fast food restaurants.
I'm wanting to apply at this restaurant in the mall-- I have an old neighbor friend who works there. I'm hoping to meet guys there and maybe some cute guy customers. What should I do to become more dateworthy? Also: someone who's super shy and never goes out what would be your advice to me when I get a job and meeting guys? I'm not a troll-- I need some realistic advice that's all!