Me and my girlfriend broke up after 9 months about a month ago. There was no infidelity or mistrust. We still love each other a lot. The reason why she called it was because she moved 200 miles to start university.. she also says she wants to be single for a while.
We spoke the other day, and it turns out she doesn't know whether she wants to be with me or not. She is making my life hard now, ive given her space, and now she is confusing me with all this stuff. I want to be with her, and the distance isn't an issue, we live on good transport links.
She mentioned she wants to find herself..
I understand this is a huge part in her life, and I want what is best for her. But she still cannot decide, we had something magical, and it is a lot to throw away and hard for us both.
What can i say to her that would allow her to accept me in her new future?
On the other hand.
What can i say to stop her from stringing me along, and make her final decision?
Thanks for your help.