How would guys interpret this behaviour?

[ssh]

So, let's say you're seeing a girl! Seeing her= sex.

How would you interpret this behaviour, would you think she's interested, and how would you respond, which behaviour?

• The girl you're with talks about other guys with you
• The girl texts with other guys when you're together, perhaps in just a friendly manner, but still
• She texts you very rarely, and not unless you text her first
• After sex, you offer her to sleep at your place, but she goes home
• She never makes the first move
• She's more interested in watching the movie than you
• She wants to meet up often and have sex

[NBT]

So, let's say you're seeing a girl! Seeing her= sex.

How would you interpret this behaviour, would you think she's interested, and how would you respond, which behaviour?

• The girl you're with talks about other guys with you
• The girl texts with other guys when you're together, perhaps in just a friendly manner, but still
• She texts you very rarely, and not unless you text her first
• After sex, you offer her to sleep at your place, but she goes home
• She never makes the first move
• She's more interested in watching the movie than you
• She wants to meet up often and have sex

Uhhh, she's doing ALL these things?

If so, I'd say she is NOT INTERESTED and SOLELY wants me for my sex.

Why would I want a girl who RARELY texts me, yet texts other guys while she's with me, doesn't wanna be AROUND me, never makes the first move, and is more interested in the movie than she is in ME?

Uhhh, unless I'm UNDERSTANDING this wrong, it sounds like this girl is TOTALLY NOT INTERESTED based on these things.

[Alvy]

Not interested. Good in bed, but not good enough to be 'relationship' material. Or, she's playing one sick, twisted mind game.

[girl68]

That girl wants nothing to do with you and only wants to get her jollies off. Sounds like you're wanting more and you're not going to get it from this one.

[roy_delene]

She wants a friend with "benefits" it doesn't seem like she wants anything more than sex.

[lahnnabell]

She seems to be trying to make it VERY clear that she wants you around for sex only, but she doesn't want to SAY anything. She's hoping you're gonna get the hint by the way she talks about other dudes, texts them in front of you, and doesn't spend the night.

And for the record, that's all friends with benefits is. You are friends that f*ck. Most of the time it's difficult for people to be close friends and have sex because it gets too emotional and complicated. She's making it a business transaction. Get me off, I'll get you off, end of deal. If you want more, you best look elsewhere.

[Shy Guy]

To her you are the booty call, take it or leave it.

[NBT]

She seems to be trying to make it VERY clear that she wants you around for sex only, but she doesn't want to SAY anything. She's hoping you're gonna get the hint by the way she talks about other dudes, texts them in front of you, and doesn't spend the night.

And for the record, that's all friends with benefits is. You are friends that f*ck. Most of the time it's difficult for people to be close friends and have sex because it gets too emotional and complicated. She's making it a business transaction. Get me off, I'll get you off, end of deal. If you want more, you best look elsewhere.

I'd go so far as to say that he's a f*ck buddy, rather than a FWB. Because she doesn't even TREAT him like a friend. She wants the sex ONLY.

[sookie6]

I can see what a f... buddy is...

But then the line between FWB and boyfriend becomes slightly blurry...

Because if you have sex with someone on a regular basis it means sex is good...and if it's a friend it means you enjoy spending time with them...so all ingredients for a relationship are there...

Anyway from what you are describing it's difficult to say how she feels BUT on a postive note she definitely enjoys sex with you if she comes back for it...so you are doing something right in the bedroom!!!!

[Alvy]

Not all the ingredients are there for a proper 'relationship'. Talk to anyone in a happy relationship and they'll mention a lot more than just 'they're good in bed and they're not a pain in the ass to hang out with'.

[sookie6]

Not all the ingredients are there for a proper 'relationship'. Talk to anyone in a happy relationship and they'll mention a lot more than just 'they're good in bed and they're not a pain in the ass to hang out with'.

You are right I should have said 'it's a good start for a relationship'...

[legend]

maybe and maybe not