The fight
Sam & I had a biggie yesterday when we woke up. The problem we are having is my brother who is my roommate. My bro he’s normal but not normal like he can’t cook on the stove etc.... he just does not possess common sense, and if he does no one would know it because of these problems everyone has enabled him. So I am constantly cleaning up after my slob brother and my mom asked me to deal with it please so he doesn’t move back in with her ( my parents have issues with this) & now I am too. Sam was not happy when he saw the kitchen an utter disaster, so he was aggravated, so I was going to go shop and then he made a comment that I never say or do anything about it and that pissed me off. Then he proceeded to not feel needed and tell me he was leaving me! And he left. He actually left me. So I left he called me & asked when I would be back to so he could pack up his stuff, I came home he pretended to pack and we sat down and talked then we laughed at ourselves and we cuddled a bit he gave me some kisses apologies were made and dinner was cooked but I just didn’t want to get close to him last night and I shot down most of his attempts not rudely or crudely but just because I was hurt that he would just say he was going to leave me and I was hurt and the whole thing was a mess and I know people fight but I don’t want to feel like he is going to leave me every time we have an issue. There have been two fights in the past where he has made this kind of comment but he was outside on the steps and we make up talk immediatley. The whole situation just made me feel like he was just so quick to out on me.
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