Hi,
I hope you are all well and thanks for reading.
I have been with my gf for 5 years. Im 29nand she is 35. No children. Living together in own house foe the last 3 years.
Firsty I want to say she is wonderful and I know I love her to peices n vice versa. No chance of cheating or suspicion. Our relationship other than below is fantastic.
Right my problem.
Our sex life has been good if not as frequent as I would like but thats ok. Maybe once a week to once twice a week. The problem is I have to ask for a kiss or a cuddle. She will push my hands away if I touch her no matter where on her body and (nicely) asks me to stop. This happens alot as I enjoy physical contact with her both sexually and none.
I am niw at a stage where a hour ago I went for a cuddle she batted me away and I appoligised only for her to ask I dont make her feel guilty.
This has been gradule process. I dont want to make it a topic if disscusion between us as I dontbwant her to feel bad about it.
I have started to loose alot of confidence because of it.
When it comes to sex that has gradually become less n less frequent, not for lack of trying in my part (but not pestering) she makes no advances towards me, well it has happend 3 times in years. She allways enjoys sex but she cums very quickley and is over sensitive afterwards n not intrested if we take a break. I, sadly, have allot of stamina and cant cum in under 30 seconds like she can. She im sure then feels bad. She use to guve me handjob after but that stopped fairley recently, never oral ever.
I feel like I force sex on her even though this is not the case, I tried not to approach her for sex or anything else but its very hard not to want to touch some one you love.
We spend time together when we can iur working hours are a bit out of alignment but not much.
The only criticism I have is jn the evenings she enjoys soaps, all of them so 3 hours a night or more. I can only srand so much so I will entertain myself by reading or going to bed to watch stuff on my tablet.
We have a wonderful relationship but I do feel some times im just here to help pay the morgage
Any advice is welcome
Thanks
Jon