Okay, so here's the deal - my relationship has been sort of eating me up to the point that I find myself awake at 2:08 AM and with such a terrible feeling at my heart that I need to open up someone, anyone, for advice. Maybe I'll even feel better after posting this, who knows?
Basically, I'm in a beautiful relationship. I'm twenty-two years old and have gone through quite a few relationships since I've hit 14 years old but I haven't had one single girlfriend who has treated me well now. We've been dating for about a year now. There's absolutely nothing about her I don't like and I've fallen madly in love with everything that makes her...well, her.
Well nearly everything.
She has guy friends. A lot of guy friends. Now, normally this wouldn't even bug me, let alone keep me up at the middle of the night; I'm not old-fashioned in that sense because hey, we're in the twenty-first century and everyone is bound to have friends of the opposite gender and really, it doesn't mean anything at all. It's just the fact that so many of her guy friends do have a thing for her, or at least give off that impression. What do I mean by that? They hit on her constantly. Whether it's messages via Skype or comments about her body on Facebook, a good chunk of her friends are very outspoken about it. And to make matters worse, she never pointed out any of these things; I've always come across these comments by myself by sheer accident (as in we'd be on her laptop and she'd open Skype only for us both to see a friend of her's hitting on her and she quickly closing the window and apologizing). She assures me that they're not actually hitting on her and they've just been like that since ever.
Why is this bothering me so much? She's never given me reason to not trust her.
Anyway, thanks for listening. If any of you have been in a similar situation, please let me know.
Thanks!
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