I know there's a cyber dating section, but there doesn't seem to be much activity over there and I really want a response/advice asap :p
Anyways,
so I've been dating this girl online for 14 months now. We've had our fair share of bumps in the road (mostly my fault, typical man) But we're doing amazing now. I love her so much, and we have so much in common. It's the reason I'm still with her. We both like anime, video games, reading, action packed movies, and uuuhhh more intimate stuff too. The point is, the chances of me finding another girl like her who likes all of the same things as me are slim to none.
The problem is that she lives less than 3 hours from me and after 14months she doesn't want to meet me yet. I offered to come up there and visit (in case it was too much trouble for her to come down here). We're very in love, at least I think we are. We say it too each other all the time ( I know I love her, i hope she feels the same way). She likes it when I sing to her (I'm not a good singer, she just likes to hear me serenade her :p ). Even though we don't share a bed, she still likes it when I go to bed with her.
ANYWAYS! Why doesn't she wan't to meet me yet? How can I pursuade her too. It really hurts me because I love her so much, yet i feel she doesn't wanna be with me... am I wasting my time?
sorry about the long post, please give me some advice, no matter how little it may be.