I made the mistake of getting involved with a much younger coworker. I can't even believe I allowed this to happen since I am so much older, but I suppose I had a need to still feel attractive after a horrific divorce and raising four daughters alone.
Nevertheless, I wound up feeling used and hurt; he walked away smug and uncaring. Now I'm working with this guy every day in a small office and it's very uncomfortable. Yesterday I was upset and I sent him a text saying F#%@ You....not good. I can't afford to leave my job, but am looking for another to remove myself from the stress I face every day seeing him there. If I had it to do over....no way...wouldn't happen!