Try to focus more on getting out and meeting people in real life, that way you'll get the chance to have people get to know you and like you for the whole package. The whole online thing is kind of ass backwards...get to know the persons personality THEN see what they look like. It works for some people and I'm not knocking it but its fickle and you never can be sure who you're really dealing with.
Get out with friends, volunteer, join a gym, club, church, etc.
So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?