How can you tell through a bloody fkfacebook photo that you're not "feeling it?" Did you not see the movie American Pie where the lead character hated the band camp girl at first? Well, she turned out to be one hot tamale and in the sequel to the movie they got married. So get off your keester meeester and get yourself out on that date with his counsin. If you're not feeling it after a date or two, then write her off but to write her off before you've even met her is just you being lazy and photo judgemental.
You will not "break someone's heart" by going on a date or two and then deciding that it's not working for you. That is what dating is all about, to get to learn more about a person and then deciding if you mesh. Quit making excuses for yourself and get out there and date. If this girl friend of your cousin turned you down before then tell your cousin that and he'll lay off the pushing of meeting. However; you should go to the school meet and get to know her better. If you two don't hit it off then maybe she has a friend that she can introduce you to. Become her platonic friend and network from there.
Sitting at your desk and worrying and complaining about things isn't going to progress you anywhere. Be proactive and enthusiastic instead of inactive and negative. You might want to think about reading The Secret so that you can turn around the negativity. What you put out there comes back to you so why not be more positive?
Last edited by Wakeup; 09-10-11 at 02:45 AM.
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“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion