I've been married just over a year now, and she's a great woman by all accounts. Before we were married we dated for a little over 3 years. She had always said she wasn't going to live with a guy before marriage, and I always said I'd never marry someone that I didn't live with first. Well I gave in on that one and we lived separate until we were married. So now a year into it and I'm somewhat regretting my decision, and I don't know what to do or to think. As I said she's a great girl, I just feel like our lifestyles don't "mesh" well. She's happy staying home most of the time just watching TV or doing puzzles or whatever. I'd much prefer finding things to do, to stay busy all the time. I work a lot, 60-70 hours a week. So when I'm not bound to work I don't want to just sit and do nothing. She doesn't give me a hard time if i go out on my own or with friends, but it only seems to happen once or twice a month. I feel bad going without her. I'm feeling stuck in bored-land after only a year. I'm not a planner, aside from work I don't often know what I'm going to do this next week, this weekend, or even tomorrow. She likes to be planned and organized to the max. If we are going out on a Saturday she likes to know by about Wednesday, and I just can't do that. I don't know what to do. I can't stress enough that she's not doing anything wrong at all, but I don't feel like I'm doing anything wrong either. Ideas, thoughts, comments?